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advice column: I’m a Conservative Woman Who Doesn’t Believe in Casual Sex - I’m horny constantly.
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Albatross953
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Dear Sandy, please attend a sex addiction workshop at my house this Friday. Bring wine.
In order to be addicted to something, you actually need to be doing it. I’m not addicted to cigarettes if I only think about them all day but don’t actually smoke. Also, an addiction has to have a negative consequence. You can have lots of sex if it is safe and you are honest and open about it. It become an addiction when you are raw dogging dudes on the side while in a committed relationship.
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She needs to have sex. My sense is that she's overly fussy in her mate selection. Her first husband was likely some alpha solider in some branch of the armed forces. She's comparing every guy she meets to him and guys are falling short of her expectations.
There's nothing wrong with only wanting sex within a committed relationship. It does reduce partner count and prevents carousel riding. There's a happy medium though.
There's nothing wrong with only wanting sex within a committed relationship. It does reduce partner count and prevents carousel riding. There's a happy medium though.
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So, just as with guys, a woman going too long without sexual release leads to becoming uncontrollably horny. What a surprise!
Only within a committed relationship, pfffff. Such human bullsh!t. The chimpanzee which is our closest relative sharing 99% of our DNA are promiscuous as fvck, they all try to fvck as many as they can. They don't give a fvck about commitment. Humans also technically being apes means we are driven by pretty much the same instincts, we have just added a lot of extra steps to the process.
She's fighting nature.
Only within a committed relationship, pfffff. Such human bullsh!t. The chimpanzee which is our closest relative sharing 99% of our DNA are promiscuous as fvck, they all try to fvck as many as they can. They don't give a fvck about commitment. Humans also technically being apes means we are driven by pretty much the same instincts, we have just added a lot of extra steps to the process.
She's fighting nature.
metalwater
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more to this story for sure.
lots of guys want to have sex and will try an LTR to get it, especially if the girl is sexy looking and or acting.
she does not want a relationship apparently.., (no guy that excites her is available)
she does want sex, (yes..)
she does not want sex without a relationship. (that anyone knows about)
this is female logic for sure. I wonder what will she do??
lots of guys want to have sex and will try an LTR to get it, especially if the girl is sexy looking and or acting.
she does not want a relationship apparently.., (no guy that excites her is available)
she does want sex, (yes..)
she does not want sex without a relationship. (that anyone knows about)
this is female logic for sure. I wonder what will she do??
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Her libido will flat-line eventually. It’s use it or lose it.
The thing with women that separates them out from us is most of them have the abundance mindset so quite a few of them choose their vibrators to satisfy them and are perfectly fine with that until they are either ready for a relationship or the right guy comes along before giving it up. I've talked to quite a few women that's been using their vibrators for years. Guys cannot do this, at least not by choice.
Abundance = Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Just because a gal can get laid anytime doesn't mean she should.
It's like giving a kid a big bowl of candy and leaving them alone. Abundance mentality and self regulation will allow those kids that have that to only take a couple while the kids that don't possess those traits will gobble up the whole bowl of candy.
Abundance = Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Just because a gal can get laid anytime doesn't mean she should.
It's like giving a kid a big bowl of candy and leaving them alone. Abundance mentality and self regulation will allow those kids that have that to only take a couple while the kids that don't possess those traits will gobble up the whole bowl of candy.
Baibars
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and that's why Men should make decisions and set boundaries in society, not women.
Exactly.
mrgoodstuff
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Even a males will flatline or reduce. But it will come back alive if he or she gets bavk in the saddle and puts it to use.
Females since they're not visual creatures like a guy can often institute that "out of sight, out of mind" type thought process and suppress their libido until she get's back into the saddle with the right guy.
mrgoodstuff
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Female see too. I thought to forum addressed this fallacy.
Agree and they do it for various reasons. But that's what separates out the weak ho's from quality gals.
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Not sure how I had forgotten to post the link!
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I’m a Conservative Woman Who Doesn’t Believe in Casual Sex. I’m Horny Constantly.
Can a celibate person have a sex addiction?
MatureDJ
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Of course, us humans have the capacity to think about things; our chimp cousins don't think about anything.