"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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coolness

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Hi, I have two questions:

My neghits work most of the time, but some girls outmanouver it by accually agreeing to it!! They would go like "No, I don´t have any friends" or "Yes, I´m shy, I don´t talk to people". What could possibly be a good response to her beeing negative about herself? Complimenting them is not a good idea, isn´t it?

Finally, after all the practice, I do get good conversation and hot moments concerning goodlooking women, but I don´t have the feeling that I have a lot of control over ****-closing them. It happens more or less randomly. Is there anybody with a lot of experience out there who can tell me about this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Slickster

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Sounds like you are neg-hitting the wrong women.

Shy girls and ones that don't have any friends aren't really worthy of neg-hits. What are you an a$$hole? :)

Save them for those ultra high on themselves chicks who think the whole world revolves around them.

Those are the ones who need to be knocked off their pedestal.
 

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I said "advanced" for a reason. I only approach women who are AT LEAST a 9, everything else is for weak pu$$ies. I guess every single one of them is beeing approached all day, that´s what makes it so interresting. This
women know about neghits, they´ve seen and heard it all. Some of them have an ego and negging works anyways, but some are so confident and bored they don´t feel like wasting their energy on some random guy. That´s why they simply "step aside" when I - verbally - hit them. Any ideas? Please don´t nail me to the ground because what I call a neghit might not be the textbook definition of a neghit, that would be beside the point.
 

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Alright Coolness

Don't get upset now. You haven't really given enough info for anyone to make a comment here.

Why are you neg-hitting these chicks?
Are they giving you attitude?
Do you open chicks with negs?
What kind of conversation are you having when you make the neg?

Tough to give any examples unless you give some more details.

Neg hits aren't really meant to be the sole part of your game. They should be used sparingly at most.
 

Chrispy

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You're clearly doing the 'neg-hit' thing wrong...to the point they are probably taking you seriously with the desired ill-effect. You may be coming across as an a$$-hole with an attitude.

I know..cuz i've done it wrong and then you end up feeling like an a$$ and completely killing the conversation! Hate being there! You're not opening with neg-hits or bringing it in too early are you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bbc

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If it doesn work, you may need to punch her harder.
Talk about how you like slim women and point out how not slim she is.

If however she admits all the crap, well, than she does not need neghits anymore. She needs something else, so move on.

I would say if he is below 5 give her a light, short compliment. if she is way above 5, punch harder :)
 

Blue-eyed Devil

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In my opinion, this is the perfect time to merely agree with her agreement in whatever fashion works for you. That alone should put her off balance. If necessary, you can give her another neg-hit and see what happens. Otherwise, just let it go and move on to the next.
 
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