"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi, I have two questions:

My neghits work most of the time, but some girls outmanouver it by accually agreeing to it!! They would go like "No, I don´t have any friends" or "Yes, I´m shy, I don´t talk to people". What could possibly be a good response to her beeing negative about herself? Complimenting them is not a good idea, isn´t it?

Finally, after all the practice, I do get good conversation and hot moments concerning goodlooking women, but I don´t have the feeling that I have a lot of control over ****-closing them. It happens more or less randomly. Is there anybody with a lot of experience out there who can tell me about this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slickster

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Sounds like you are neg-hitting the wrong women.

Shy girls and ones that don't have any friends aren't really worthy of neg-hits. What are you an a$$hole? :)

Save them for those ultra high on themselves chicks who think the whole world revolves around them.

Those are the ones who need to be knocked off their pedestal.
 

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I said "advanced" for a reason. I only approach women who are AT LEAST a 9, everything else is for weak pu$$ies. I guess every single one of them is beeing approached all day, that´s what makes it so interresting. This
women know about neghits, they´ve seen and heard it all. Some of them have an ego and negging works anyways, but some are so confident and bored they don´t feel like wasting their energy on some random guy. That´s why they simply "step aside" when I - verbally - hit them. Any ideas? Please don´t nail me to the ground because what I call a neghit might not be the textbook definition of a neghit, that would be beside the point.
 

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Alright Coolness

Don't get upset now. You haven't really given enough info for anyone to make a comment here.

Why are you neg-hitting these chicks?
Are they giving you attitude?
Do you open chicks with negs?
What kind of conversation are you having when you make the neg?

Tough to give any examples unless you give some more details.

Neg hits aren't really meant to be the sole part of your game. They should be used sparingly at most.
 

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You're clearly doing the 'neg-hit' thing wrong...to the point they are probably taking you seriously with the desired ill-effect. You may be coming across as an a$$-hole with an attitude.

I know..cuz i've done it wrong and then you end up feeling like an a$$ and completely killing the conversation! Hate being there! You're not opening with neg-hits or bringing it in too early are you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If it doesn work, you may need to punch her harder.
Talk about how you like slim women and point out how not slim she is.

If however she admits all the crap, well, than she does not need neghits anymore. She needs something else, so move on.

I would say if he is below 5 give her a light, short compliment. if she is way above 5, punch harder :)
 

Blue-eyed Devil

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In my opinion, this is the perfect time to merely agree with her agreement in whatever fashion works for you. That alone should put her off balance. If necessary, you can give her another neg-hit and see what happens. Otherwise, just let it go and move on to the next.
 
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