"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trans_am17

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I was just messing around and I made a profile on adultfriendfinder but instead of being 18, I put that I was 30!

Like I said I was just messing around and this hot a** girl emailed me. She looks to be in her late 20's! And she wants to hook up and everything. She sent me a link to her webpage and says she loves sex and all that. What should I do now?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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20 bucks says that the girl in the pic is not the girl who messaged you. There are tons of ditchpigs on the net who pretend they are hot but turn out to be fat ugly cows.

just go with it... ask for more pics first, and then go for it, if she's legit.

why on earth did you put 30? even 25 woulda been ok
 

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I don't think I was really paying attention when I put the age. Should I tell her I'm 18? What should I do to make sure things are legit before I set a meeting place and walk into something stupid?
 

Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by trans_am17
I don't think I was really paying attention when I put the age. Should I tell her I'm 18? What should I do to make sure things are legit before I set a meeting place and walk into something stupid?
Meet at a public place first. That is a must...I know of a guy who went to a chicks house and guys jumped out and robbed him.....be carefull dude.

About the age thing......I would just tell her you were 18.....or at least as old that is still belivable......maybe you can pass for 23....i dont know.

~Smooth
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spider_007

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side question

does that site ever work for guys (the ratio is huge), or do just buff psycho guys get laid (just like in the reall world)??????
 

DonJuanMonk

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I wish I could go back in the days when I was under 21 and was stupid as fck.

ALL POSTERS on this website UNDER 21 should GO TO HIGH SCHOOL FORUM!
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Link to her webpage?

If her "webpage" requires a subscription then your girl is probably some marketer for an adult site network.
 

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lol

rofl dont get all happy kid, that wasnt a real message. It was a marketer hahaha
 

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hehe, you do realize that half of the profiles on that site are fake just to draw traffic dont you? Do you really think all those hot babes they show on there are desperate for sex enough to create a profile begging for guys to fu** them? Either they are webmodels looking to market their own site or they are targets used my Adultfriendfinder to get you to sign up for one of their premium packages.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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manuva

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Originally posted by spider_007
or do just buff psycho guys get laid (just like in the reall world)??????
You got issues mate.
 

Bible_Belt

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do just buff psycho guys get laid

The women on there who are not fake are there to cheat on someone. There are also husbands who like to watch and recruit guys off AFF to do their wife.

You would meet the same people at a local swing club, if you live in or near a major city.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonhomme

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SeldomSeen's right on.

If the gal's not a paying member, chances are she's trying to make a buck.

If I were to put a profile up there, I'd include a statement to the effect of: "Genuine replies only; if you're here to market your web site, your time is better spent elsewhere."

That let's 'em know not to bother straightaway, without provoking them into spamming you for spite.
 

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Also realize how many desperate guys have used her as a *** dumpster already . . .

Try and think about how each previous loser tastes when you're doing the dirty bird with the skank.


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