"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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trans_am17

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I was just messing around and I made a profile on adultfriendfinder but instead of being 18, I put that I was 30!

Like I said I was just messing around and this hot a** girl emailed me. She looks to be in her late 20's! And she wants to hook up and everything. She sent me a link to her webpage and says she loves sex and all that. What should I do now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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20 bucks says that the girl in the pic is not the girl who messaged you. There are tons of ditchpigs on the net who pretend they are hot but turn out to be fat ugly cows.

just go with it... ask for more pics first, and then go for it, if she's legit.

why on earth did you put 30? even 25 woulda been ok
 

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I don't think I was really paying attention when I put the age. Should I tell her I'm 18? What should I do to make sure things are legit before I set a meeting place and walk into something stupid?
 

Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by trans_am17
I don't think I was really paying attention when I put the age. Should I tell her I'm 18? What should I do to make sure things are legit before I set a meeting place and walk into something stupid?
Meet at a public place first. That is a must...I know of a guy who went to a chicks house and guys jumped out and robbed him.....be carefull dude.

About the age thing......I would just tell her you were 18.....or at least as old that is still belivable......maybe you can pass for 23....i dont know.

~Smooth
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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spider_007

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side question

does that site ever work for guys (the ratio is huge), or do just buff psycho guys get laid (just like in the reall world)??????
 

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I wish I could go back in the days when I was under 21 and was stupid as fck.

ALL POSTERS on this website UNDER 21 should GO TO HIGH SCHOOL FORUM!
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Link to her webpage?

If her "webpage" requires a subscription then your girl is probably some marketer for an adult site network.
 

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lol

rofl dont get all happy kid, that wasnt a real message. It was a marketer hahaha
 

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hehe, you do realize that half of the profiles on that site are fake just to draw traffic dont you? Do you really think all those hot babes they show on there are desperate for sex enough to create a profile begging for guys to fu** them? Either they are webmodels looking to market their own site or they are targets used my Adultfriendfinder to get you to sign up for one of their premium packages.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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manuva

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Originally posted by spider_007
or do just buff psycho guys get laid (just like in the reall world)??????
You got issues mate.
 

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do just buff psycho guys get laid

The women on there who are not fake are there to cheat on someone. There are also husbands who like to watch and recruit guys off AFF to do their wife.

You would meet the same people at a local swing club, if you live in or near a major city.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SeldomSeen's right on.

If the gal's not a paying member, chances are she's trying to make a buck.

If I were to put a profile up there, I'd include a statement to the effect of: "Genuine replies only; if you're here to market your web site, your time is better spent elsewhere."

That let's 'em know not to bother straightaway, without provoking them into spamming you for spite.
 

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Also realize how many desperate guys have used her as a *** dumpster already . . .

Try and think about how each previous loser tastes when you're doing the dirty bird with the skank.


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