"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone Much cooler

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Every friday or saturday night me and my boys will go out to either a club or a college party. We usually do very well and meet girls. I usually can pull about 4-8 #'s a night, and maybe a lay 1 every 5 times we go out! seriously!

My problem is that it always involves alcohol. After wrecking one of my buick grand nationals due to intoxication =(I am trying to quit! the problem is its hard when everything you do socially liquor is all around you. Then you got hot horny girl that want you to do body shot. ect. What are some adult social settings that won't revolve around alchol, that i can still meet plenty of women, and still hang wit my boyz? Any feed back would be greatly appreciated!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro said:
Why do you feel that you have to get wasted when you go to those parties?
Because if you don't the girls start looking really fat and sloppy.
 

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no id don't feel the need to get wasted. Actually i never drink that much to get **** faced. I just know myself if im @ a party, with alotta hot girls and they are drinking, the drinks are free-im gonna start drinking. i won't even think about it, its like a subliminal message! when you go to the movies people eat popcorn and you want popcorn and all those other expensive snack they sell that u usually wouldn't have a craving for! plus @ alot of college parties by me alot of people just stand around drink, play flip cup no one really dances all that much!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Find a church. Plenty of women can be found there.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
Every friday or saturday night me and my boys will go out to either a club or a college party. We usually do very well and meet girls. I usually can pull about 4-8 #'s a night, and maybe a lay 1 every 5 times we go out! seriously!

My problem is that it always involves alcohol. After wrecking one of my buick grand nationals due to intoxication =(I am trying to quit! the problem is its hard when everything you do socially liquor is all around you. Then you got hot horny girl that want you to do body shot. ect. What are some adult social settings that won't revolve around alchol, that i can still meet plenty of women, and still hang wit my boyz? Any feed back would be greatly appreciated!
Try a game of checkers at the local nursing home.
 

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I dont play checkers i play chess. I could get with some of those seniors...collect that SS check ummm ummm easy living.
wow thats scary there is nothing fun you can do with out alcohol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Someone Much cooler said:
I'm muslim so the men and women in my masque/masjid (church) are in seperate rooms.

why are you drinking if you're muslim then ?!? :confused:
 

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the same reason im on a forum like this one, meeting women and sexing them....obviously because while my faith is islam...im not practicing too well nor am i a good muslim....
 

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hey man, im a muslim too bro. if u go to college or univeristy, join one of those associations, like in my school we have like pakistan student association, afghan association. they have social events with free food, no alcohol, and usually thers always girls there that are DTF but u'll never know
 

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Find a hobby. Dancing, Co-ed sports, join a gym. Expand your social circle and you'll find women.

There is a thread here with one guy that does nothing but Day Game. He dislikes the bar scene, and makes a point to game women at bookstores, clothing stores, etc.

If women is the goal, Game is the answer either way. Where you do it doesn't matter. Granted, you'll find more doable women when there is alcohol involved than in most other venues, but saying those are the only places to meet them, is just an excuses to not game anywhere and everywhere.

Edit: SS doesn't let anyone down. People choose to not follow advice and let themselves down.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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darth ur brilliant. I will try that. Nemic, i do have hobbies, lol i restore classic muscle cars, i drag race and i box and practice martial arts. I havent really been to the drag strip in a while cause i lost my license. SS has, but you havent let me down my friend, thanx for taking the time to post guys.
 
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