"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every friday or saturday night me and my boys will go out to either a club or a college party. We usually do very well and meet girls. I usually can pull about 4-8 #'s a night, and maybe a lay 1 every 5 times we go out! seriously!

My problem is that it always involves alcohol. After wrecking one of my buick grand nationals due to intoxication =(I am trying to quit! the problem is its hard when everything you do socially liquor is all around you. Then you got hot horny girl that want you to do body shot. ect. What are some adult social settings that won't revolve around alchol, that i can still meet plenty of women, and still hang wit my boyz? Any feed back would be greatly appreciated!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxtro said:
Why do you feel that you have to get wasted when you go to those parties?
Because if you don't the girls start looking really fat and sloppy.
 

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no id don't feel the need to get wasted. Actually i never drink that much to get **** faced. I just know myself if im @ a party, with alotta hot girls and they are drinking, the drinks are free-im gonna start drinking. i won't even think about it, its like a subliminal message! when you go to the movies people eat popcorn and you want popcorn and all those other expensive snack they sell that u usually wouldn't have a craving for! plus @ alot of college parties by me alot of people just stand around drink, play flip cup no one really dances all that much!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Find a church. Plenty of women can be found there.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
Every friday or saturday night me and my boys will go out to either a club or a college party. We usually do very well and meet girls. I usually can pull about 4-8 #'s a night, and maybe a lay 1 every 5 times we go out! seriously!

My problem is that it always involves alcohol. After wrecking one of my buick grand nationals due to intoxication =(I am trying to quit! the problem is its hard when everything you do socially liquor is all around you. Then you got hot horny girl that want you to do body shot. ect. What are some adult social settings that won't revolve around alchol, that i can still meet plenty of women, and still hang wit my boyz? Any feed back would be greatly appreciated!
Try a game of checkers at the local nursing home.
 

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I dont play checkers i play chess. I could get with some of those seniors...collect that SS check ummm ummm easy living.
wow thats scary there is nothing fun you can do with out alcohol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Someone Much cooler said:
I'm muslim so the men and women in my masque/masjid (church) are in seperate rooms.

why are you drinking if you're muslim then ?!? :confused:
 

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the same reason im on a forum like this one, meeting women and sexing them....obviously because while my faith is islam...im not practicing too well nor am i a good muslim....
 

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hey man, im a muslim too bro. if u go to college or univeristy, join one of those associations, like in my school we have like pakistan student association, afghan association. they have social events with free food, no alcohol, and usually thers always girls there that are DTF but u'll never know
 

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Find a hobby. Dancing, Co-ed sports, join a gym. Expand your social circle and you'll find women.

There is a thread here with one guy that does nothing but Day Game. He dislikes the bar scene, and makes a point to game women at bookstores, clothing stores, etc.

If women is the goal, Game is the answer either way. Where you do it doesn't matter. Granted, you'll find more doable women when there is alcohol involved than in most other venues, but saying those are the only places to meet them, is just an excuses to not game anywhere and everywhere.

Edit: SS doesn't let anyone down. People choose to not follow advice and let themselves down.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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darth ur brilliant. I will try that. Nemic, i do have hobbies, lol i restore classic muscle cars, i drag race and i box and practice martial arts. I havent really been to the drag strip in a while cause i lost my license. SS has, but you havent let me down my friend, thanx for taking the time to post guys.
 
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