picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone used the website "Adult friend finder" ? it is supposed to be one night stand search site to find a babe to get laid.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Adult friend finder website?
- Thread starter picard
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I used that once about a year ago in a pit of extreme desperation... the bottom line, I got VERY lucky, but you should take heed and stay the f#ck away from this site. I'm going to run down the reasons why: #1) There are literally hundreds of thousands more male than female members. You can check the numbers on their stat page. I checked my state's once (MA) and there were 120,000 men seeking women, and 8,000 women seeking men. In fact, there were more women seeking women (like 9,000) than seeking men! #2) If you think those odds are bad, more than half of the female profiles seeking men are fake.. they will correspond with you with a generic canned email asking you to write them at a specific address or asking for yours. We all know what happens next. #3) If you are fortunate enough to find a REAL girl, they make it very difficult to get in contact with them if they are not a paying member. Sure, they get your emails, but they can't respond, and most times the host site will block-out any attempt to give her your personal email address or IM username or whatever.
The place is a nightmare. But like I said, I got very lucky. I hooked-up with this very hot 32 year-old single mom. We went out one night, had some drinks, got a room, and both of us had a pretty decent workout. That was a f#ckin blast... we talked for a bit after but she had a lot of 'baby-daddy' drama (plus she lived over 50 miles away) and I was never able to see her again. Fortunately for me, I got something back for the $40 I spent on that site for the month, but I know the chances of that happening again are practically zero, so I'd never go back. Unless you really like spam, I'd suggest you do the same.
The place is a nightmare. But like I said, I got very lucky. I hooked-up with this very hot 32 year-old single mom. We went out one night, had some drinks, got a room, and both of us had a pretty decent workout. That was a f#ckin blast... we talked for a bit after but she had a lot of 'baby-daddy' drama (plus she lived over 50 miles away) and I was never able to see her again. Fortunately for me, I got something back for the $40 I spent on that site for the month, but I know the chances of that happening again are practically zero, so I'd never go back. Unless you really like spam, I'd suggest you do the same.
picard
Master Don Juan
thanks for info DrZaius. I won't go to that site.