picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone used the website "Adult friend finder" ? it is supposed to be one night stand search site to find a babe to get laid.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Adult friend finder website?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I used that once about a year ago in a pit of extreme desperation... the bottom line, I got VERY lucky, but you should take heed and stay the f#ck away from this site. I'm going to run down the reasons why: #1) There are literally hundreds of thousands more male than female members. You can check the numbers on their stat page. I checked my state's once (MA) and there were 120,000 men seeking women, and 8,000 women seeking men. In fact, there were more women seeking women (like 9,000) than seeking men! #2) If you think those odds are bad, more than half of the female profiles seeking men are fake.. they will correspond with you with a generic canned email asking you to write them at a specific address or asking for yours. We all know what happens next. #3) If you are fortunate enough to find a REAL girl, they make it very difficult to get in contact with them if they are not a paying member. Sure, they get your emails, but they can't respond, and most times the host site will block-out any attempt to give her your personal email address or IM username or whatever.
The place is a nightmare. But like I said, I got very lucky. I hooked-up with this very hot 32 year-old single mom. We went out one night, had some drinks, got a room, and both of us had a pretty decent workout. That was a f#ckin blast... we talked for a bit after but she had a lot of 'baby-daddy' drama (plus she lived over 50 miles away) and I was never able to see her again. Fortunately for me, I got something back for the $40 I spent on that site for the month, but I know the chances of that happening again are practically zero, so I'd never go back. Unless you really like spam, I'd suggest you do the same.
The place is a nightmare. But like I said, I got very lucky. I hooked-up with this very hot 32 year-old single mom. We went out one night, had some drinks, got a room, and both of us had a pretty decent workout. That was a f#ckin blast... we talked for a bit after but she had a lot of 'baby-daddy' drama (plus she lived over 50 miles away) and I was never able to see her again. Fortunately for me, I got something back for the $40 I spent on that site for the month, but I know the chances of that happening again are practically zero, so I'd never go back. Unless you really like spam, I'd suggest you do the same.
picard
Master Don Juan
thanks for info DrZaius. I won't go to that site.