picard
Master Don Juan
Has anyone used the website "Adult friend finder" ? it is supposed to be one night stand search site to find a babe to get laid.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Adult friend finder website?
- Thread starter picard
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I used that once about a year ago in a pit of extreme desperation... the bottom line, I got VERY lucky, but you should take heed and stay the f#ck away from this site. I'm going to run down the reasons why: #1) There are literally hundreds of thousands more male than female members. You can check the numbers on their stat page. I checked my state's once (MA) and there were 120,000 men seeking women, and 8,000 women seeking men. In fact, there were more women seeking women (like 9,000) than seeking men! #2) If you think those odds are bad, more than half of the female profiles seeking men are fake.. they will correspond with you with a generic canned email asking you to write them at a specific address or asking for yours. We all know what happens next. #3) If you are fortunate enough to find a REAL girl, they make it very difficult to get in contact with them if they are not a paying member. Sure, they get your emails, but they can't respond, and most times the host site will block-out any attempt to give her your personal email address or IM username or whatever.
The place is a nightmare. But like I said, I got very lucky. I hooked-up with this very hot 32 year-old single mom. We went out one night, had some drinks, got a room, and both of us had a pretty decent workout. That was a f#ckin blast... we talked for a bit after but she had a lot of 'baby-daddy' drama (plus she lived over 50 miles away) and I was never able to see her again. Fortunately for me, I got something back for the $40 I spent on that site for the month, but I know the chances of that happening again are practically zero, so I'd never go back. Unless you really like spam, I'd suggest you do the same.
The place is a nightmare. But like I said, I got very lucky. I hooked-up with this very hot 32 year-old single mom. We went out one night, had some drinks, got a room, and both of us had a pretty decent workout. That was a f#ckin blast... we talked for a bit after but she had a lot of 'baby-daddy' drama (plus she lived over 50 miles away) and I was never able to see her again. Fortunately for me, I got something back for the $40 I spent on that site for the month, but I know the chances of that happening again are practically zero, so I'd never go back. Unless you really like spam, I'd suggest you do the same.
picard
Master Don Juan
thanks for info DrZaius. I won't go to that site.