"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AD's machine

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I've been a lurker for quite some time. Below are 10 posts(Anti-Dump's machine by pook) that I think oughto be resurrected. Note these are only for guys who are looking for LTR's. No speed seduction tips, or quick guide to laying women here, so if thats what you're looking for, stop reading now.

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part I: Interest Level)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part II: More Interest Level)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39769

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part III: You BUY a relationship, not BUILD one)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39785

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part IV: Embrace ACTION, Woman's Weak Spot)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39887

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part V: Women and Information)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39888

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part VI: Three Words To Change Your Life!)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40188

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part VII: Become a Mystery!)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40241

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part VIII: Approaching Women)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40347

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part IX: ALWAYS Be Prepared!)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40698

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part X: After the Dates)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=58363

My way of saying thanks to pook and AD for the information. ALL the credit goes to them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This should be stickied...
 
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Yo CMOS,


Thanks for the compilation. This is a great arsenal of info for us to have within reach whenever we need it.

Oh, and Welcome to the War, soldier...

And good luck IN THE FIGHT!!!!
 
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Maybe the machine is not useful for ONS and stuff, but I am sure the attitude behind it is very important, and that's not only for sarging.

AD rules.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pook's AD machine posts are truly unique. In them, Pook seems to take the position of the student, summarizing what he has learned from Anti-Dump. He not only summarizes, but lays it out for us step by step. We not only see the 'machine' and how it works, but we also see how Pook came to his conclusions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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/bump

Even if it's in the bible, it deserves to be read many, many times. BUmp for those who havent bothered to check out the Bible yet. (you know who you are, I'm watching you!!)
 
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I am one of the few members still around from back when Anti-Dump was a current poster. I was a 16-year-old virgin when I started reading stuff by him, Pook, and Big Don. It changed my life. Read their stuff and soak it up like it's gospel.
 
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Hmm, read this ages ago.
Necro thread :).

His machine basically states that initial interest level should be your filter for deciding to pursue or not.
Fair enough, but interest level can increase and decrease FROM pursuing.

All comes back to persistence when there's a genuine chance and nexting appropriately.
People can become obsessed with interest level, which is only one facet to a successful relationship-- don't get obsessed with something so particular.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BUMPING this hardcore.


#1 problem if you aren't getting anywhere with a girl is SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. move on get another one. AD says it a lot better
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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