"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Admitting to having little to no experience

Epicwinguy

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The book "Models" says you should be comfortable admitting you have little experience with women. This really sounds like a terrible idea to me, and the last thing in the world I would ever admit to IRL. I did manage to convince a few people that I was experienced.

Is this a good idea, or better to lie if you are very inexperienced and are very convincing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you're a good liar/actor I'd do it. I convinced this girl I was dating that I was massively successful with women in the past just by acting like I was the shiit.
 

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Yeah you´re not gonna fool anyone with a comment like "You see, I am very picky about my womenfolk". Last time I had a woman in my bed and she asked me out of the blue how many others had been there I just said smiled and laughed a little while I said something like "Thats not something you need to think about". Sounded better in my language but its the way you say it like it is nothing.

Sluts lie about how many men they sleep with so you at least dont admit you are a complete noob. She will eventually find out how good you are with women eventually anyway, just like you will find out of she is a major slut. The truth eventually comes out.
 

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Tim Tebow could obviously have any woman he wants, and that dude is a virgin.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no need to say anything, most women are used to having bad sex anyway
They cant tell if its good or bad.

Some dude they are massivley attracted to and turned on by could give an average performance and the girl will think its amazing

Whereas some dude who they could take or leave give a great performance and the girl will think it was ok.
 

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Download a how to on good oral hint the letters of the alphabet thing works pretty well. Be dominant gently throw on the bed hold her arms behind her back, hold her over arms over her head eccetera. Pull those simple tricks and you either won't get that question or She'll think you've been with too many girls. Either is a good thing.
 
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BTW you are absolutely doing the right thing checking out the advice of those books here. The guys here have 1000 times the experience of those books. I remember going on overboard on ****y and funny one year before I realised that it was really hard to pull off and I sucked badly at it. It cost me a handful of HB eights. Wish I had knowin that the guys were here at so suave at the time to pull my head out of my ass
 

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@Epicwinguy kudos bro you're obviously progressing if you're asking this type of question. Don't worry too much about quality at this stage as long as you're getting it wet.

I would suggest you add a bit more detail to some of your back posts about things that you've tried from the advice and how it went you ll move ahead a lot faster. When I came out of a series of ltrs I was way rusty and posted a bunch of embarrassing field reports. The guys advice on those field reports helped me a lot. Took me six months to shake the rust off, at that stage I had 3 good quality plates spun up and I never looked back
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fake it 'till you make it.

Never tell the girl you have no experience. It's an instant turn-off. You are saying "No other girl was ever willing to do this but you seem really nice..."

Likewise don't tell her how long it's been since you got laid, and don't thank her after.
 

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I think you just do whatever your impulses tell you to do. That way she won't feel embarrassed to share with you any of her fetishes. I believe pretty much everyone has them. Just gotta keep an open mind.
 

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@Epicwinguy kudos bro you're obviously progressing if you're asking this type of question. Don't worry too much about quality at this stage as long as you're getting it wet.

I would suggest you add a bit more detail to some of your back posts about things that you've tried from the advice and how it went you ll move ahead a lot faster. When I came out of a series of ltrs I was way rusty and posted a bunch of embarrassing field reports. The guys advice on those field reports helped me a lot. Took me six months to shake the rust off, at that stage I had 3 good quality plates spun up and I never looked back
I ain't gettin it wet yet, but I believe I am much closer than I was a few months ago.
 

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Just tell her: "i'll whisper it in your ears tomorrow morning on the pillow"

A girl who's interested will overlook your experience.

However, you have to keep her interest: answering with humour in a mysterious fashion, is your best bet.

Gotta keep her curious
 

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If you don't want to admit you lack experience then don't. Do what you want.

What is the worst that can happen if you lie about your experience? You get rejected or dumped? Oh no! Not like you can start fresh later with a new woman or something lol.

I wouldn't have the career I have today if I didn't lie about my experience.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's not the actual sex experience that women covet, when they fawn over the dude who gets laid all the time. It's the competition.....they want what all the other women want. They wonder why they want him, so that makes them even more curious. Not to mention the obvious alpha male qualities that attracted women to him in the beginning. It's like a snowball rolling downhill, just keeps getting bigger and faster.
 

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i'm in the line of never lie, but don't forward info, don't keep asking how you are going, just do what you want to do and see how her react. be playfull and keep doing it
also I never had a girl ask if I know what I was doing and don't belive there will ever be a girl who will do so
 
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