"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Admitting to having little to no experience

Epicwinguy

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The book "Models" says you should be comfortable admitting you have little experience with women. This really sounds like a terrible idea to me, and the last thing in the world I would ever admit to IRL. I did manage to convince a few people that I was experienced.

Is this a good idea, or better to lie if you are very inexperienced and are very convincing?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you're a good liar/actor I'd do it. I convinced this girl I was dating that I was massively successful with women in the past just by acting like I was the shiit.
 

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Yeah you´re not gonna fool anyone with a comment like "You see, I am very picky about my womenfolk". Last time I had a woman in my bed and she asked me out of the blue how many others had been there I just said smiled and laughed a little while I said something like "Thats not something you need to think about". Sounded better in my language but its the way you say it like it is nothing.

Sluts lie about how many men they sleep with so you at least dont admit you are a complete noob. She will eventually find out how good you are with women eventually anyway, just like you will find out of she is a major slut. The truth eventually comes out.
 

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Tim Tebow could obviously have any woman he wants, and that dude is a virgin.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no need to say anything, most women are used to having bad sex anyway
They cant tell if its good or bad.

Some dude they are massivley attracted to and turned on by could give an average performance and the girl will think its amazing

Whereas some dude who they could take or leave give a great performance and the girl will think it was ok.
 

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Download a how to on good oral hint the letters of the alphabet thing works pretty well. Be dominant gently throw on the bed hold her arms behind her back, hold her over arms over her head eccetera. Pull those simple tricks and you either won't get that question or She'll think you've been with too many girls. Either is a good thing.
 
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BTW you are absolutely doing the right thing checking out the advice of those books here. The guys here have 1000 times the experience of those books. I remember going on overboard on ****y and funny one year before I realised that it was really hard to pull off and I sucked badly at it. It cost me a handful of HB eights. Wish I had knowin that the guys were here at so suave at the time to pull my head out of my ass
 

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@Epicwinguy kudos bro you're obviously progressing if you're asking this type of question. Don't worry too much about quality at this stage as long as you're getting it wet.

I would suggest you add a bit more detail to some of your back posts about things that you've tried from the advice and how it went you ll move ahead a lot faster. When I came out of a series of ltrs I was way rusty and posted a bunch of embarrassing field reports. The guys advice on those field reports helped me a lot. Took me six months to shake the rust off, at that stage I had 3 good quality plates spun up and I never looked back
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fake it 'till you make it.

Never tell the girl you have no experience. It's an instant turn-off. You are saying "No other girl was ever willing to do this but you seem really nice..."

Likewise don't tell her how long it's been since you got laid, and don't thank her after.
 

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I think you just do whatever your impulses tell you to do. That way she won't feel embarrassed to share with you any of her fetishes. I believe pretty much everyone has them. Just gotta keep an open mind.
 

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@Epicwinguy kudos bro you're obviously progressing if you're asking this type of question. Don't worry too much about quality at this stage as long as you're getting it wet.

I would suggest you add a bit more detail to some of your back posts about things that you've tried from the advice and how it went you ll move ahead a lot faster. When I came out of a series of ltrs I was way rusty and posted a bunch of embarrassing field reports. The guys advice on those field reports helped me a lot. Took me six months to shake the rust off, at that stage I had 3 good quality plates spun up and I never looked back
I ain't gettin it wet yet, but I believe I am much closer than I was a few months ago.
 

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Just tell her: "i'll whisper it in your ears tomorrow morning on the pillow"

A girl who's interested will overlook your experience.

However, you have to keep her interest: answering with humour in a mysterious fashion, is your best bet.

Gotta keep her curious
 

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If you don't want to admit you lack experience then don't. Do what you want.

What is the worst that can happen if you lie about your experience? You get rejected or dumped? Oh no! Not like you can start fresh later with a new woman or something lol.

I wouldn't have the career I have today if I didn't lie about my experience.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's not the actual sex experience that women covet, when they fawn over the dude who gets laid all the time. It's the competition.....they want what all the other women want. They wonder why they want him, so that makes them even more curious. Not to mention the obvious alpha male qualities that attracted women to him in the beginning. It's like a snowball rolling downhill, just keeps getting bigger and faster.
 

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i'm in the line of never lie, but don't forward info, don't keep asking how you are going, just do what you want to do and see how her react. be playfull and keep doing it
also I never had a girl ask if I know what I was doing and don't belive there will ever be a girl who will do so
 
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