"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Adds me on Facebook before her number

1-800-HellNo

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Girl i've been flirting with takes her phone out "what's your last name"
I tell her my name, assuming she's gonna put my number in, but instead says,
"cool i just added you on facebook," then we traded numbers.

Not really a big deal, and it's a for sure thing with her, but the facebook thing kinda trips me up because i don't like getting facebook involved with new girls.

Should I ignore the friend request and just text her in a few days, or accept it now?

She's probably 20 or 21.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desdinova

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Facebook can either be your best friend or worst enemy when it comes to attracting women. It really depends on your profile. If you whine and bytch about everything on your status updates, be guaranteed that she's going to read them. If you're upbeat, funny, happy and positive (and this goes for pictures as well) you're just going to become more attractive to her.

I've had women's IL increase after adding them to my FB. If you have a dreadful history on your FB page, then you shouldn't add her. If you get questioned about it, just say that you only add VERY close friends and family. Then she'll see getting on your friends list as a challenge.
 

1-800-HellNo

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Desdinova said:
Facebook can either be your best friend or worst enemy when it comes to attracting women. It really depends on your profile. If you whine and bytch about everything on your status updates, be guaranteed that she's going to read them. If you're upbeat, funny, happy and positive (and this goes for pictures as well) you're just going to become more attractive to her.

I've had women's IL increase after adding them to my FB. If you have a dreadful history on your FB page, then you shouldn't add her. If you get questioned about it, just say that you only add VERY close friends and family. Then she'll see getting on your friends list as a challenge.
I don't really post on FB, and have always deleted stuff that could be seen as negative.

If anything it's just boring, and normal. but i do usually get a lot of comments and likes on my pics and posts from girls, so that probably counts for something.

i think i'll add her, and then i'll text her in a few days.
 

nroug7

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1-800-HellNo said:
I don't really post on FB, and have always deleted stuff that could be seen as negative.

If anything it's just boring, and normal. but i do usually get a lot of comments and likes on my pics and posts from girls, so that probably counts for something.

i think i'll add her, and then i'll text her in a few days.
Facebook is my humour portal, all my dark humour stands out well on Facebook, plus, I'm rather immature when I choose to be. The downside is I don't add family on my Facebook, but I would never do that anyways. I also wouldn't add workmates. If it bothers you, create two separate accounts, one for family and workmates and one for friends and other people.
 

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Girls get way too comfortable on FB though... even if you contact her from there, get out ASAP and arrange to meet her in person. Avoid long conversations on FB like the plague and you'll be fine even if you add her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who Dares Win

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Of all the girls I banged in the last year none asked for my facebook nor added through mutual friends, all the girls which asked straight my facebook or added me with no particular invitation from me I got nothing physical.

At first I considered that there was something wrong in my facebook but I dont think its the case, then realize that those girls asking me on facebook already made a half decision and needed some comfort to definitely put me in the no-sex zone.

On the opposite girls which wanted sex didnt even about it just make sure that if anything was to go wrong there would be no connection nor deep knowledge about each other.

Right now I dont add on facebook girls I wanna bang nor remotely suggest them to add me, I guess when a girl asks for facebook instead of number is not a good sign, at least ime.
 

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Make facebook your friend my man. Don't spend to much time on it, and make it seem like you're an addict. But throw a status update once a few weeks, have a few friends post on your wall. Get tagged in a few, upload a few selfies doing something interesting and fun. Make yourself seem like someone who has alot to offer..
I throw out a status once a month if at all, but i regularly get tagged in pictures and posts from my friends. Have a few people here and there post on my wall and my pictures get a fair few likes and comments from girls.
This was my last status update :
""My rule is....if you have socks on, it's not gay. Most weekends I go to this gay bar since I get sick of girls hitting on me. I somehow get drunk and end up sucking dudes off in the bathroom. I wear shoes and socks so it's not really that gay""

I found it hilarious, so i posted it. Got like 100+ likes, and alot of comments. Just some random sh1t here and there is gold man.

Facebook can be your best friend or your worst enemy. I've had sex with more than 10 girls in the past year through PURE interaction through facebook.. they were attractive too. Never met them in real life. Either i added them or they added me. No work at all on my behalf..
Learn to use it to your advantage man. The messenger application on smart phones is basically free texting.. use it. Girls love to text and facebook.. so msg them here and there. I had a girl i used to talk to a few years back msg me on facebook few weeks ago.. out of the blue. (turns out she had just broken up with her fiance) Few days later i'm balls deep in her. Don't let this potential go to waste man.. don't live in the past of "phone calls".. use text game, use facebook game. Make it work.

If you really want you can make a fake account of a really good looking girl and post **** on your wall just to seem like you have social proof. lol border line sociopath but if it works why not hey? haha
 
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