"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Adds me on Facebook before her number

1-800-HellNo

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Girl i've been flirting with takes her phone out "what's your last name"
I tell her my name, assuming she's gonna put my number in, but instead says,
"cool i just added you on facebook," then we traded numbers.

Not really a big deal, and it's a for sure thing with her, but the facebook thing kinda trips me up because i don't like getting facebook involved with new girls.

Should I ignore the friend request and just text her in a few days, or accept it now?

She's probably 20 or 21.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Desdinova

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Facebook can either be your best friend or worst enemy when it comes to attracting women. It really depends on your profile. If you whine and bytch about everything on your status updates, be guaranteed that she's going to read them. If you're upbeat, funny, happy and positive (and this goes for pictures as well) you're just going to become more attractive to her.

I've had women's IL increase after adding them to my FB. If you have a dreadful history on your FB page, then you shouldn't add her. If you get questioned about it, just say that you only add VERY close friends and family. Then she'll see getting on your friends list as a challenge.
 

1-800-HellNo

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Desdinova said:
Facebook can either be your best friend or worst enemy when it comes to attracting women. It really depends on your profile. If you whine and bytch about everything on your status updates, be guaranteed that she's going to read them. If you're upbeat, funny, happy and positive (and this goes for pictures as well) you're just going to become more attractive to her.

I've had women's IL increase after adding them to my FB. If you have a dreadful history on your FB page, then you shouldn't add her. If you get questioned about it, just say that you only add VERY close friends and family. Then she'll see getting on your friends list as a challenge.
I don't really post on FB, and have always deleted stuff that could be seen as negative.

If anything it's just boring, and normal. but i do usually get a lot of comments and likes on my pics and posts from girls, so that probably counts for something.

i think i'll add her, and then i'll text her in a few days.
 

nroug7

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1-800-HellNo said:
I don't really post on FB, and have always deleted stuff that could be seen as negative.

If anything it's just boring, and normal. but i do usually get a lot of comments and likes on my pics and posts from girls, so that probably counts for something.

i think i'll add her, and then i'll text her in a few days.
Facebook is my humour portal, all my dark humour stands out well on Facebook, plus, I'm rather immature when I choose to be. The downside is I don't add family on my Facebook, but I would never do that anyways. I also wouldn't add workmates. If it bothers you, create two separate accounts, one for family and workmates and one for friends and other people.
 

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Girls get way too comfortable on FB though... even if you contact her from there, get out ASAP and arrange to meet her in person. Avoid long conversations on FB like the plague and you'll be fine even if you add her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who Dares Win

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Of all the girls I banged in the last year none asked for my facebook nor added through mutual friends, all the girls which asked straight my facebook or added me with no particular invitation from me I got nothing physical.

At first I considered that there was something wrong in my facebook but I dont think its the case, then realize that those girls asking me on facebook already made a half decision and needed some comfort to definitely put me in the no-sex zone.

On the opposite girls which wanted sex didnt even about it just make sure that if anything was to go wrong there would be no connection nor deep knowledge about each other.

Right now I dont add on facebook girls I wanna bang nor remotely suggest them to add me, I guess when a girl asks for facebook instead of number is not a good sign, at least ime.
 

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Make facebook your friend my man. Don't spend to much time on it, and make it seem like you're an addict. But throw a status update once a few weeks, have a few friends post on your wall. Get tagged in a few, upload a few selfies doing something interesting and fun. Make yourself seem like someone who has alot to offer..
I throw out a status once a month if at all, but i regularly get tagged in pictures and posts from my friends. Have a few people here and there post on my wall and my pictures get a fair few likes and comments from girls.
This was my last status update :
""My rule is....if you have socks on, it's not gay. Most weekends I go to this gay bar since I get sick of girls hitting on me. I somehow get drunk and end up sucking dudes off in the bathroom. I wear shoes and socks so it's not really that gay""

I found it hilarious, so i posted it. Got like 100+ likes, and alot of comments. Just some random sh1t here and there is gold man.

Facebook can be your best friend or your worst enemy. I've had sex with more than 10 girls in the past year through PURE interaction through facebook.. they were attractive too. Never met them in real life. Either i added them or they added me. No work at all on my behalf..
Learn to use it to your advantage man. The messenger application on smart phones is basically free texting.. use it. Girls love to text and facebook.. so msg them here and there. I had a girl i used to talk to a few years back msg me on facebook few weeks ago.. out of the blue. (turns out she had just broken up with her fiance) Few days later i'm balls deep in her. Don't let this potential go to waste man.. don't live in the past of "phone calls".. use text game, use facebook game. Make it work.

If you really want you can make a fake account of a really good looking girl and post **** on your wall just to seem like you have social proof. lol border line sociopath but if it works why not hey? haha
 
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