"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Address the elephant in the room the same as 'we need to talk'?

chris2for

Banned
Joined
May 20, 2016
Messages
114
Reaction score
15
Age
36
HA! AWALT....99.9% will not initiate in early stages of anything. You got bang em solid for atleast 30-60 days. Even then they still might not!?

What's the timeline here? How many good bangs have you gotten in? Men lead, woman follow. Don't chase, just lead. Set up dates, fvck em. And have fun doing it, when the fun stops just move on to new prospects.
It's been about 5/6 months so yea we're past that early stage haha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

chris2for

Banned
Joined
May 20, 2016
Messages
114
Reaction score
15
Age
36
I'd say she is about to hit you with a LJBF talk...have you had sex with her yet?
Yea I'm thinking that too...I figured she's trying to let me down/reject me in a nice way.

Yea we've had sex. Not in a while lol, but it's happened.
 

CMNILS87

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2016
Messages
902
Reaction score
662
Age
39
Yea I'm thinking that too...I figured she's trying to let me down/reject me in a nice way.

Yea we've had sex. Not in a while lol, but it's happened.
Yea if she was loving the sex and gettin feelings, she'd be blowing up your phone. I'd personally not go for coffee. Make her talk to you over phone, chicks love that closure shot face to face
 

chris2for

Banned
Joined
May 20, 2016
Messages
114
Reaction score
15
Age
36
Yea if she was loving the sex and gettin feelings, she'd be blowing up your phone. I'd personally not go for coffee. Make her talk to you over phone, chicks love that closure shot face to face
Guess that would explain why she called, which she never does.
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
You could just told her to cut the BS and get to the point.
Pretty much ^^This...don't do this on her terms, make her do it on yours where she feels less comfortable.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top