"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Adding Value

Epicwinguy

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In what ways can you add value to a social interaction? I can only think of a few.

Funny jokes
Optimistic attitude
Credible advice
Compliments (When necessary)

What other ways can one add value?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlphaNate

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Your way of thinking implies only WHAT you say is important.

B - Body Language
E - Eye Contact
T - Tone of Voice

B.E.T. matters way more than anything you say. I wouldn't recommend talking about Costco chicken wings, though.
 

ubercat

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Bringing people who r sitting there like pet rocks back into the conversation, basically the opposite of AMOGing.
 

Urbanyst

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Being valuable. Wisdom and leadership.

Unless I'm at work, I don't worry about adding value to situations. If people are associating with you, they see your value. If they don't see your value, don't associate with them.
 

ubercat

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So @Epicwinguy that's more than most young guys know. R u gonna ask more questions or go join that baseball team?

BTW all the replies above r true.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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