"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Adding more to the workout

DarthJuan

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I've been bulking up over the past year doing the core exercises (bench, deads, squats) like everyone recommends.

I'm getting pretty close to my goals now, so I'd like to incorporate some other exercises.

What are some good exercises to start adding to the core ones?

Also, should I change up using barbells to dumb bells to mix things up a little?

-thx
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A whole year with those 3 primary exercises ONLY? How did that go? Please explain further on with this I'm quiet interested in hearing the results :)
 

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Seconding Zerix, *just* those 3 exercises? I'd also be interested to hear the results. Did you gain the size you were expecting, are some of your beach muscles lagging behind, etc? (biceps etc)

-shaun
 

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For most people, there's no need to actually work the beach muscles (up to a point). They will grow without direct stimulus.. again, up to a point. but worry about getting to that point first. :)

if you have a winning system, run with it..
 

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Warboss Alex said:
For most people, there's no need to actually work the beach muscles (up to a point). They will grow without direct stimulus.. again, up to a point. but worry about getting to that point first. :)

if you have a winning system, run with it..
Being into science and all, I was wondering what the mechanism is for that? That is, why will the biceps grow through building a heavy squat, despite not receiving any microtrauma?

I know they do, as I haven't done curls in 2 months and my arms have grown, I'm just interested.

cheers,
-shaun
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DarthJuan, sorry for straying off topic btw, lol :)

Exercises to add are:

rows or chins (or both)
posterior core exercise (pullthroughs, goodmornings)
shoulder press
curls
tricep exercise (pushdowns, skullcrushers, french press)

You could also start doing some incline bench presses, and put some dumbbell bench presses in. :)

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Being into science and all, I was wondering what the mechanism is for that? That is, why will the biceps grow through building a heavy squat, despite not receiving any microtrauma?

I know they do, as I haven't done curls in 2 months and my arms have grown, I'm just interested.

cheers,
-shaun
I would have to say that it's because of more over-all body stress and a larger realease in anabolic hormones. That's just a guess though.
 

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donjuanjovi said:
I would have to say that it's because of more over-all body stress and a larger realease in anabolic hormones. That's just a guess though.
essentially that's it. the body will grow as a unit up to a point from just the fact it's growing.. hence why beginners do well in Rippetoe etc which don't include direct arm work. once you're past the beginner stage you need to do more direct arm work etc as these will require additional overload (in most people)
 
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