"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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adding a chick your gaming on facebook, good or bad?

Shivastorm_88

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Would it be a good thing or a bad thing? I'd say its good because if she ends up browsing through your pics (well in my case, I have a lot) she can see a lot of the fun stuff that I do, such as hiking, wall climbing, etc.

or am I mistaking?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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If she's interested enough to look through your pics then you probably don't need the extra help that the pics would give you. I stopped adding most people on Facebook (especially girls), but I'll accept if they send me a request.
 

AmIAFC

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Personally, I don't. One of the girls I'm talking to always brings up the fact that I keep denying her friendship requests and I keep putting it off.

I see it as no different than surrendering your cell phone to a female. She'll have complete access and knowledge of a big portion of your social life. Who you mess with, where you go, etc. Why give it all up on a silver platter when you could retain that power and distribute it to her in portions and in person in an intimate context?

Show her what you're about through real life dialogue and real life actions.
 

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Well maybe its just my generation or age group, but its pretty rgular for me to just add anyone I know, if its someone I talk to at all, I'll accept their friends request. Its been working pretty well for me, many girls that I barely knew, I started talking to through Facebook, and we became very close if you catch my drift.

Another way I see it is that if they know you have access to their profile, and you dont acknowledge it, they think you are just not even interested in being acquaintances (Thats what Facebook has become now)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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xHiGHPoTeniaL

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I added a chick i chill with on and off recently and now i kinda wish i didnt. I'm now stuck reading about everything that goes on in her life, good or bad, how the club was, blahh.. before we can actually talk about it like normal ppl. I also hardly use it myself so it looks like i'm not all that active(which i havent been lately lol but she dont need to kno that).

the other annoying part is seeing all the comments from her guy friends/orbiters. esp the flirty crap, but then again that may be my own insecurities creeping in but still annoying.
 

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It depends on what you have on the facebook. Think twice...but if you cant get burned by whats on yours then I say do it. Who cares.
 
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I'm in college, so adding new people on Facebook is like sneezing or scratching my ass. Frequent, and I don't think about it a whole lot. (I also have my profile on lockdown...I'm tagged in hundreds of pictures, but you can't access them directly through my profile.)

If she's in your social circle, by all means. If not, wait a bit until you do.
 

kingsam

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Shivastorm_88 said:
Would it be a good thing or a bad thing? I'd say its good because if she ends up browsing through your pics (well in my case, I have a lot) she can see a lot of the fun stuff that I do, such as hiking, wall climbing, etc.

or am I mistaking?
go ahead ... if you wanna eliminate ALL mystery about yourself to her
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NO MA'AM

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Shivastorm_88,

If she friend requests you, definitely accept it. Otherwise, try to keep a potential relationship out of the virtual world and in the real world.

First, you'll become just another one of her many Facebook "friends" who are either legit or just FarmVille neighbors. And second, her status updates will likely become a constant source of frustration for you when she want to mess with you.
 

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I had a chic who had her phone set up so everything posted on my wall went to her phone....I did not like that.
 

chance

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my facebook got disabled for some reason. oh well.. at least girls won't know what i'm doing now. not that i used it much anyway. only used it to try get laid with not much luck.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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todays_news

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just change the privacy settings to what people can see. Anyone can see my facebook wall, but only about fifteen people (my wolfpack) can see my photos.
 
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