“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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adding a chick your gaming on facebook, good or bad?

Shivastorm_88

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Would it be a good thing or a bad thing? I'd say its good because if she ends up browsing through your pics (well in my case, I have a lot) she can see a lot of the fun stuff that I do, such as hiking, wall climbing, etc.

or am I mistaking?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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If she's interested enough to look through your pics then you probably don't need the extra help that the pics would give you. I stopped adding most people on Facebook (especially girls), but I'll accept if they send me a request.
 

AmIAFC

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Personally, I don't. One of the girls I'm talking to always brings up the fact that I keep denying her friendship requests and I keep putting it off.

I see it as no different than surrendering your cell phone to a female. She'll have complete access and knowledge of a big portion of your social life. Who you mess with, where you go, etc. Why give it all up on a silver platter when you could retain that power and distribute it to her in portions and in person in an intimate context?

Show her what you're about through real life dialogue and real life actions.
 

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Well maybe its just my generation or age group, but its pretty rgular for me to just add anyone I know, if its someone I talk to at all, I'll accept their friends request. Its been working pretty well for me, many girls that I barely knew, I started talking to through Facebook, and we became very close if you catch my drift.

Another way I see it is that if they know you have access to their profile, and you dont acknowledge it, they think you are just not even interested in being acquaintances (Thats what Facebook has become now)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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xHiGHPoTeniaL

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I added a chick i chill with on and off recently and now i kinda wish i didnt. I'm now stuck reading about everything that goes on in her life, good or bad, how the club was, blahh.. before we can actually talk about it like normal ppl. I also hardly use it myself so it looks like i'm not all that active(which i havent been lately lol but she dont need to kno that).

the other annoying part is seeing all the comments from her guy friends/orbiters. esp the flirty crap, but then again that may be my own insecurities creeping in but still annoying.
 

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It depends on what you have on the facebook. Think twice...but if you cant get burned by whats on yours then I say do it. Who cares.
 
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I'm in college, so adding new people on Facebook is like sneezing or scratching my ass. Frequent, and I don't think about it a whole lot. (I also have my profile on lockdown...I'm tagged in hundreds of pictures, but you can't access them directly through my profile.)

If she's in your social circle, by all means. If not, wait a bit until you do.
 

kingsam

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Shivastorm_88 said:
Would it be a good thing or a bad thing? I'd say its good because if she ends up browsing through your pics (well in my case, I have a lot) she can see a lot of the fun stuff that I do, such as hiking, wall climbing, etc.

or am I mistaking?
go ahead ... if you wanna eliminate ALL mystery about yourself to her
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NO MA'AM

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Shivastorm_88,

If she friend requests you, definitely accept it. Otherwise, try to keep a potential relationship out of the virtual world and in the real world.

First, you'll become just another one of her many Facebook "friends" who are either legit or just FarmVille neighbors. And second, her status updates will likely become a constant source of frustration for you when she want to mess with you.
 

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I had a chic who had her phone set up so everything posted on my wall went to her phone....I did not like that.
 

chance

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my facebook got disabled for some reason. oh well.. at least girls won't know what i'm doing now. not that i used it much anyway. only used it to try get laid with not much luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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todays_news

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just change the privacy settings to what people can see. Anyone can see my facebook wall, but only about fifteen people (my wolfpack) can see my photos.
 
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