"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Brian20o2

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I think I might be developing ADD (If thats possible). I dont like not being able to fucus on things for more than about 20 min. I get bored and tired of somthing very fast and try to find somthing else to do. I know that there are drugs to help concentrate and focus (Ridalin, Aderol) But I would like to know how to regain my focus without drugs. This has only happened in probably the past 2 months. I dont know why this is hapening but I think It might mave somthing to do with the weather, since it has gone from about 66 outside a month ago to 90 today.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brian20o2

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This may just be restlessness so I am going to try meditating in a shaded cool place for a short time each day. I'll try to focus more whenever I try to do soething but it seems my short term memory has gone to crap.
 

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I have ADD. It's a little more complicated than that. You're just simply getting bored. As far as I can tell by your short description, it's nothing more.
 

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You probably listen to music, chat on AIM, go on sosuave, read a book, do HW, and surf other sites all at once. STOP DOING ONE THING PER WEEK. Cut it down until you're down to like 1 or 2 things. Then you will be able to focus better. ALSO, read books and A LOIT OF BOOKS. You will see an improvement.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That techinically isn't ADD.

ADD as far as I'm aware is not being able to concentrate on anything, even if you wish to. School is a pain because you just can't focus on the teacher. You forget to do your homework because it just slips your mind. People can tell you to do something, and less than 10 seconds later, your attention could be on something and you could have totally forgotten what they asked you to do.

Happens to me all the time. ADD is a b*tch.
 

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KJ2 said:
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KJ2 said:
Just great. A flame baiter troll in my post. Mods please ban him ASAP.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Hooray. This b*tch is all over the board. All of the usernames.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Brian20o2 said:
ROFL. Pretty much exactly like that.
Stop that man. We are not women. We are not supposed to multitask, but to do a single thing with full dedication. I promise yor problem will go away fast.
 

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The fats inside your brain are all Omega-3, and your body does not manufacture Omega-3 fats. They have been linked to brain development by countless studies.

So eat more Omega-3. It's in cold-water fish, flax, and walnuts.


http://www.smh.com.au/news/National...-research-shows/2006/06/21/1150701561387.html

Fish oil can treat ADHD, research shows
June 21, 2006
Omega-3 fish oil can be more effective than stimulant drugs commonly prescribed for children with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), according to new research.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Look for fish oil that has been tested by a third-party to be free of mercury and lead, and pcp/dioxin if it is from farmed fish.
 

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ThreeStorms said:
Stop that man. We are not women. We are not supposed to multitask, but to do a single thing with full dedication. I promise yor problem will go away fast.

Hi,

I'm a man; and through the generations my ancestors evolved a brain capable of keeping track of time, performing several tasks at once and understanding abstract notions. My ancestors bestowed it upon me, and I plan to use all these functions regardless of those who say they're only for girls.

Thanks for your complete unblinking attention on this matter.

MrRuckus

p.s. your car is on fire but you couldn't be bothered to notice since all your attention was on this message.
 

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Brian20o2 said:
I think I might be developing ADD (If thats possible). I dont like not being able to fucus on things for more than about 20 min. I get bored and tired of somthing very fast and try to find somthing else to do. I know that there are drugs to help concentrate and focus (Ridalin, Aderol) But I would like to know how to regain my focus without drugs. This has only happened in probably the past 2 months. I dont know why this is hapening but I think It might mave somthing to do with the weather, since it has gone from about 66 outside a month ago to 90 today.

Heat make you loose concentration it's normal. ADD is alot more complicated. You do not "develop" ADD, it's when your brain is wired differently. When you are up on hyperactivity you can change subjects when you speak every ten seconds, never sit still (i.e. bounch of chairs when you sit down). Finger on everything, etc...
 

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See if you don't have to use glasses.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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