"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Was waiting for the train the other day, when this hot girl starts to talk w/ me cuz the train was late, we had a nice convo and I felt it "click". Unfortunately we got seats in separate traincars but I waved bye to her and she smiled and waved back.

I didnt get her name but I got where she's from and where she lives. (small town) so through facebooks search functionality, I think I found her. Should I msg her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I suggest running to each other another time and make a little small talk, If possible ask her number this time, so it seems a lot more casual and natural.

If you message her now you run the risk of her answering cold and distant due to you, after all, being an stranger.
 
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If a girl would do that to me I'd be frightened.
 
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