"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sbgm

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Was waiting for the train the other day, when this hot girl starts to talk w/ me cuz the train was late, we had a nice convo and I felt it "click". Unfortunately we got seats in separate traincars but I waved bye to her and she smiled and waved back.

I didnt get her name but I got where she's from and where she lives. (small town) so through facebooks search functionality, I think I found her. Should I msg her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anteros

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I suggest running to each other another time and make a little small talk, If possible ask her number this time, so it seems a lot more casual and natural.

If you message her now you run the risk of her answering cold and distant due to you, after all, being an stranger.
 

Cerwin Vega

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If a girl would do that to me I'd be frightened.
 
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