jhonny9546
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According to researchers, women with bpd, actually have some positive characteristics, but i didn't expect that "loyalty" would be one of them
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Actually BPD have positive to it
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According to researchers, women with bpd, actually have some positive characteristics, but i didn't expect that "loyalty" would be one of them
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BaronOfHair
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Psychopathy similarly has it's "positives": When one is heavily amoral/consiceneless, it's remarkably easy to
-Achieve considerable financial success, by deceiving your colleagues and clients, whitewash yourself as the victim, when folks object to the way you've dealt with them
And
-Win quite a few commendations from your government, after murdering random Nabibs and Eduardos by the bundle, while performing covert operations in 3rd World armpits around the planet
Whether or not this stuff is honorable or especially beneficial is also questionable
-Achieve considerable financial success, by deceiving your colleagues and clients, whitewash yourself as the victim, when folks object to the way you've dealt with them
And
-Win quite a few commendations from your government, after murdering random Nabibs and Eduardos by the bundle, while performing covert operations in 3rd World armpits around the planet
Whether or not this stuff is honorable or especially beneficial is also questionable
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The Duke
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I had a live in girlfriend that was borderline, and very loyal. I imagine it's their fear of abandonment that keeps them loyal.
Poor girl got married to a nice, older guy that just doesn't do it for her. 10yrs later she still reaches out and sends me songs that remind her of us.
Poor girl got married to a nice, older guy that just doesn't do it for her. 10yrs later she still reaches out and sends me songs that remind her of us.
Bible_Belt
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Sure, they're loyal when you're the Best Person in the World and not the Worst Person in the World, an award for which all of her exes are tied. Enjoy it while it lasts.
jhonny9546
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How did you know?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.