jhonny9546
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According to researchers, women with bpd, actually have some positive characteristics, but i didn't expect that "loyalty" would be one of them
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Actually BPD have positive to it
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According to researchers, women with bpd, actually have some positive characteristics, but i didn't expect that "loyalty" would be one of them
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BaronOfHair
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Psychopathy similarly has it's "positives": When one is heavily amoral/consiceneless, it's remarkably easy to
-Achieve considerable financial success, by deceiving your colleagues and clients, whitewash yourself as the victim, when folks object to the way you've dealt with them
And
-Win quite a few commendations from your government, after murdering random Nabibs and Eduardos by the bundle, while performing covert operations in 3rd World armpits around the planet
Whether or not this stuff is honorable or especially beneficial is also questionable
-Achieve considerable financial success, by deceiving your colleagues and clients, whitewash yourself as the victim, when folks object to the way you've dealt with them
And
-Win quite a few commendations from your government, after murdering random Nabibs and Eduardos by the bundle, while performing covert operations in 3rd World armpits around the planet
Whether or not this stuff is honorable or especially beneficial is also questionable
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The Duke
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I had a live in girlfriend that was borderline, and very loyal. I imagine it's their fear of abandonment that keeps them loyal.
Poor girl got married to a nice, older guy that just doesn't do it for her. 10yrs later she still reaches out and sends me songs that remind her of us.
Poor girl got married to a nice, older guy that just doesn't do it for her. 10yrs later she still reaches out and sends me songs that remind her of us.
Bible_Belt
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Sure, they're loyal when you're the Best Person in the World and not the Worst Person in the World, an award for which all of her exes are tied. Enjoy it while it lasts.
jhonny9546
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How did you know?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.