"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was at the mall today, doing some xmas shopping. Hb 7 was hanging around so i opened a convo with her.

The convo didnt last long because i saw this hb9 in the distance and lost my train of thought. Somehow my body managed to decently # close because my brain was focused on this other chick.

Well turns out, i actually got this hb 9's number a year ago, when she wasnt quite a 9. I never called her but had her # in my phone. Well the mall was crowded and hb9 disappered from view. We briefly made eye contact and i think she saw my recoginition, but could be mistaken.

Anyway i am thinking of calling her tomorrow, perhaps she will remember me?.... Either way it doesnt matter wether she rejects me or not, but i am not sure as to how i should open the convo..any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"hello julie this is sam...I think we met quite some time ago and I believe that I just saw you at the mall yesterday and I wanted to say hello and oppologize for not calling sooner. How are you doing...getting that shopping all finished yet?"
 

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Damn that is perfect. Thanks for the words. Ill put my own twist on them.
 
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Oh you need to pay attention to one ho at a time when your spitting game otherwise your game comes out weak and unfocused.

If your mind is so wishy washy that a girl walking by can distract you then you need to tighten your shyt up. It doesn't matter if she was a fairy queen...your focus should be on your target, as a hunters would.

This is important because if your mind is that wishy washy just spitting game, how will it be when it comes time to seduce her...if the tv is on and a fine babe comes on ..are you going to stop and get distracted and kill the mood...

You might practice mediation and concentration exercises to get rid of this bad habit.

When I'm on the floor dancing with a chick I become oblivious to all the other people around me. I've danced with girls whom have asked me if that is my MO to totally focus on everygirl that I meet or dance with...and I of course lie and say "no it's just you, your making me feel this way"

But of course if I drop them off at their table and dance with someone else they will see the same pattern but who cares, women will all buy into a dream.

So sell yours and keep it tight and focused!
 

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Thanks for the advice Player. You are right, though, i have to learn to maintain focus a bit better....

But in my defense, the only reason i was distracted was because i recognized the hb9, and i saw that she had changed drastically for the better. Otherwise i would have probably just glanced, noted her current movements and continued with the girl i was with.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Sir Space
Thanks for the advice Player. You are right, though, i have to learn to maintain focus a bit better....

But in my defense, the only reason i was distracted was because i recognized the hb9, and i saw that she had changed drastically for the better. Otherwise i would have probably just glanced, noted her current movements and continued with the girl i was with.

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Oh yeah I feel ya.
 
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