"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Action Thread 001 : Winter

Warrior74

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Now that winter time, holidays and Christmas shopping is coming up its a good time to take some action.

1. Step up your winter wardrobe. It's a great time to look sharp in seasonal gear.

2. Events. I don't know about your area but there are tons of season events coming up, from balls and formals to Christmas socials. Great time to get out and see whats going on in your community.

3. Personal events. Gather up friends and invite people over. It's still football season, throw your own game days. Get people together at pubs/sports bars for games or have a Halloween/Thanksgiving/Christmas party.

4. Hit the gym. It's a great time to get in the gym, getting in shape for the upcoming spring is a great move right now. Especially if your like me, a few lbs (well more than a few) overweight, winter clothes will cover your bulk and by the spring you'll have trimmed down with a new you.

5. Shopping. I see more people out during the shopping season than ever, more people in stores, malls, restaurants, bars, everywhere. So get out and shop and keep an eye out for prospects. Advice on shopping is a great opener.

If you can think of more things to do in the winter season post them. If you use any of these suggestions post for other guys to learn from.

Take some action. Good luck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kailex

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People are a lot more friendlier in that time between Thanksgiving and Christmas. There's SO many activities to do out that it's almost impossible to miss situations in which you can be social. And this is not only for finding women, but for meeting people in general. There could not be an easier time to do a Bootcamp than this.

Halloween is a great release for your inhibitions as well.


And to further Warrior's post about football. The season is heating up, which means that it's totally acceptable to go to a bar by yourself on a Sunday afternoon, sit down, and talk shop with other people there. It'll do wonders for your social aspect. I've done this in the past and it's worked like a charm.

Who knows, you might even meet a hottie who is rooting for the other team (perfect way to initiate some neg-hits) and *GASP* you might even get a date that way.

I hate the cold weather but love this time of year.
I'm already doing everything on Warrior's list but just wanted to further it along.
 

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getting in the gym just now. with combining gym and jiujitsu, my new look for 2011 will be fabolous.
 

Atom Smasher

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That's the spirit, Warrior. That's what we need more of around here... positive reminders of how we can improve our lives.

Dance lessons in the dead of Winter are always an option.
 

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Instead of making a snowman, let's drink some Scotch and make an anatomically correct HB10? Gotta find a good place for the carrot though. P.S...nice post Warrior.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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