Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Action Thread 001 : Winter

Warrior74

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Now that winter time, holidays and Christmas shopping is coming up its a good time to take some action.

1. Step up your winter wardrobe. It's a great time to look sharp in seasonal gear.

2. Events. I don't know about your area but there are tons of season events coming up, from balls and formals to Christmas socials. Great time to get out and see whats going on in your community.

3. Personal events. Gather up friends and invite people over. It's still football season, throw your own game days. Get people together at pubs/sports bars for games or have a Halloween/Thanksgiving/Christmas party.

4. Hit the gym. It's a great time to get in the gym, getting in shape for the upcoming spring is a great move right now. Especially if your like me, a few lbs (well more than a few) overweight, winter clothes will cover your bulk and by the spring you'll have trimmed down with a new you.

5. Shopping. I see more people out during the shopping season than ever, more people in stores, malls, restaurants, bars, everywhere. So get out and shop and keep an eye out for prospects. Advice on shopping is a great opener.

If you can think of more things to do in the winter season post them. If you use any of these suggestions post for other guys to learn from.

Take some action. Good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kailex

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People are a lot more friendlier in that time between Thanksgiving and Christmas. There's SO many activities to do out that it's almost impossible to miss situations in which you can be social. And this is not only for finding women, but for meeting people in general. There could not be an easier time to do a Bootcamp than this.

Halloween is a great release for your inhibitions as well.


And to further Warrior's post about football. The season is heating up, which means that it's totally acceptable to go to a bar by yourself on a Sunday afternoon, sit down, and talk shop with other people there. It'll do wonders for your social aspect. I've done this in the past and it's worked like a charm.

Who knows, you might even meet a hottie who is rooting for the other team (perfect way to initiate some neg-hits) and *GASP* you might even get a date that way.

I hate the cold weather but love this time of year.
I'm already doing everything on Warrior's list but just wanted to further it along.
 

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getting in the gym just now. with combining gym and jiujitsu, my new look for 2011 will be fabolous.
 

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That's the spirit, Warrior. That's what we need more of around here... positive reminders of how we can improve our lives.

Dance lessons in the dead of Winter are always an option.
 

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Instead of making a snowman, let's drink some Scotch and make an anatomically correct HB10? Gotta find a good place for the carrot though. P.S...nice post Warrior.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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