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Hi guys, I guess I'm not getting the results I want on Tinder. I think it has to do with the lack of quality photos of myself so I'm asking if you use Tinder what works for you?Is there a guideline that you have used to determine what pictures are better than others? I know selfies are dumb , food photos are dumb, and almost naked pictures are dumb. I think Tinder is a great tool for older men and it doesn't require much effort and the location is nice. By the way I am 40 years old , but I like to think of myself as someone aging gracefully.
 

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Hi guys, I guess I'm not getting the results I want on Tinder. I think it has to do with the lack of quality photos of myself so I'm asking if you use Tinder what works for you?Is there a guideline that you have used to determine what pictures are better than others? I know selfies are dumb , food photos are dumb, and almost naked pictures are dumb. I think Tinder is a great tool for older men and it doesn't require much effort and the location is nice. By the way I am 40 years old , but I like to think of myself as someone aging gracefully.
Always thought tinder was for the younger and less serious crowd.

Did you try deleting your profile and making a new one? That really helps. I noticed you delete it and make a new one you literally instantly getting people swiping on you.
 

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One in gym(shows your fit), one with a hot girl(social proof), one doing something fun (motorcycle, scooba/sky diving) and two good angled randoms.

Pay for the boosts, swipe right everyone and unmatch the garbage.
the tinder cheatcode.
Swiping right on everything is supposed to lower your elo score.
 

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Never knew that I haven’t used tinder in over a year but when I did I mass swiped seemed like the most efficient way.
 

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I had excellent luck getting a nice hair cut, putting on some decent clothes, nice leather jacket and going out on the back yard, setting the timer on the camera and taking a bunch of different poses/pictures. It really helped my success rate big time over the pictures I had been using. I think most guys use whatever they have and half the time they are old pics and the women pick up on that. I also dated mine so women would know they were current.
 

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I had excellent luck getting a nice hair cut, putting on some decent clothes, nice leather jacket and going out on the back yard, setting the timer on the camera and taking a bunch of different poses/pictures. It really helped my success rate big time over the pictures I had been using. I think most guys use whatever they have and half the time they are old pics and the women pick up on that. I also dated mine so women would know they were current.
Yet women all they need to do is take a couple crap selfies and one body pic and have all sorts of guys flock to them without effort.
 

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Number 1 start off with one good face picture (first thing people see about you), 2nd get a body shot of yourself (proves you take care of yourself or your not fat) , 3rd shot with friends (social proof), 4th shot with a woman (Ppoof your attractive), 5th depends good shot yourself or a shot with you and an animal such as a dog or cat (Some women like animals too much), 6th good angle photo or action photo to (show you do stuff).

Keep your description in your profile vague, don't get into too many details. You want her to match so she wants to find out about you. Be picky and swipe right only on girls you would without a doubt want to by right away. This only really works in big cities, but you should sitting at the 99+ within a day.
 

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If you are handsome selfies are ok. If you are rich photos with your expensive car are ok. If you have nice house, photos with nice house are ok. Photos of cool activities are ok. Photos with great food are ok. Photos in beautiful clothes are ok.

Tinder is all about looks and showing off quality of your life. Ignore women that write "IDGAF about your nice car" - this is but.thurt of women that were phuckdumped by guy with nice car there.

High LMS guys operate rotations there.

Low LMS guys are perceived as betabuxxers.

Don't put up your height IMO if you want just to have fun there - I'm not tall myself but my text game is strong and I can seduce chicks taller than me before they will ask how tall I am - once I put my height there (5'.8.5 Ft In/5.71 Ft) I have started to receive much more resistance and bad attitude from women - in spite of having decent job and being 7.5/10 in looks myself (additional points for face, reduced by height points lol).

Moreover, it's the best to go EITHER straight to the business if you are serious type (4-5 messages and invite for coffee) OR ****y&funny seduction (if you are younger for younger chicks). Don't send mixed signals (like ****y and funny attitude in messages while serious photos).

If you have photos with bad guy vibe expect to be ditched if you will speak about how nice you are to your cats and disabled persons on date no.1. Your message need to be coherent.

Mysterious vibe is great as it gives some additional points to being messaged first - generally speaking woman that will message you first is DTF in 2 dates tops. Don't beat yourself about losing interest in women - old/pumped-up photos are the main weapon women use there.

If woman is 31 years old and you have swiped right because she looks sexy on one photo, it's the lure-photograph (older chick say it's cool memory or smthng but it's BS - they know they get older so they use old photos to get swipes and dates).

So expect meeting 1-point uglier chick IRL (there are exceptions however).
I had that problem last old date. Chick used to play volleyball and was in shape but pics were a few years old. She was about 25lbs heavier when we met.

Someone suggested knowing someone good with photo shop and editing yourself in pics surrounded by hot women to suggest you're rich and popular or paying escorts to hangout with you doing stuff to look popular and in demand.
 

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Send d*ck pics via PM. Got a lot of chicks by using that technique.
 

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Hi guys, I guess I'm not getting the results I want on Tinder. I think it has to do with the lack of quality photos of myself so I'm asking if you use Tinder what works for you?Is there a guideline that you have used to determine what pictures are better than others? I know selfies are dumb , food photos are dumb, and almost naked pictures are dumb. I think Tinder is a great tool for older men and it doesn't require much effort and the location is nice. By the way I am 40 years old , but I like to think of myself as someone aging gracefully.
Get some professional pictures taken. Make sure you bring different shirts or outfits to the shoot. You can test out your pictures for free on photofeeler.com

My matches sky rocketed once I started using professional pictures. I would also recommend that you try out Facebook Dating besides Tinder.
Pay for the boosts, swipe right everyone and unmatch the garbage.
the tinder cheatcode.
I can tell you don't use Tinder much. Swiping everything right will give you a bad score and Tinder will put your card on the bottom of the deck. You will barely be shown and if you are shown, you will be shown to unattractive women. I've experimented with paying and not paying on Tinder. I found that I get more matches using the free one. I also want to add that not messaging your matches can also lower your score.
 

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Never knew that I haven’t used tinder in over a year but when I did I mass swiped seemed like the most efficient way.
I am in search of replacing 2 plates. Things have gotten stale and frankly they are showing signs of slowing down from chasing the carrot of a relationship with me. It happens.

So I just renewed my Tinder Gold and did a mass swiping. My phone now sounds like it is trying to send out a Morse Code using the Tinder match notification lol. I havent been on Tinder in a minute so we will see how this goes.

So much garbage to weed through. However, one can do this and quickly get a gauge of what his current SMV truly is.

If you match with a bunch of 7.5's and up, you are doing well. If you are matching with a bunch of whales and trailer trash, you might want to check out how you are coming along in your quest of self improvement.

Of course Brad Pitt could start a Tinder account and he is going to have garbage to wade through after a mass swipe right. Its Tinder. And these are women who see their self worth far above what it truly is because they think the guys that solely want to pump and dump them are true options for a relationship, when they are not. These women have such a false sense of their own value that they are truly 4s and think they are 8s because a couple of decent looking dudes messaged them "DTF?". Lol.
 

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I have noticed Tinder has vastly more attractive women that HotorNot & Bumble but im not sure why that would be.
 

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Get some professional pictures taken. Make sure you bring different shirts or outfits to the shoot. You can test out your pictures for free on photofeeler.com

My matches sky rocketed once I started using professional pictures. I would also recommend that you try out Facebook Dating besides Tinder.
I can tell you don't use Tinder much. Swiping everything right will give you a bad score and Tinder will put your card on the bottom of the deck. You will barely be shown and if you are shown, you will be shown to unattractive women. I've experimented with paying and not paying on Tinder. I found that I get more matches using the free one. I also want to add that not messaging your matches can also lower your score.
FB dating app is pretty good. Sadly, that too noticing many landwhales or undesirables lately. Back in the fall though when it launched around here it was pretty promising. Decent looking girls and an decent response rate, better than typical OLD reply rates. The trick to Facebook dating is commenting on pics. While it doesn't have a feature where you can message someone first, leaving a comment is the same as sending a message. This is how you get women to talk to you on there. Instead of like most who just like someone's profile you stand out more by leaving a comment.

That is why I hate Tinder. I deleted my account and signed up for a new free one. Within under 5 minutes I get 3 likes, and within a couple hours like 12 likes. All this with the free account. I sign up for Gold and then suddenly the likes start going down. If you do better with the free account I almost wonder if they sucker you into paying for Gold, and then when you matches go down you get suckered into purchasing the boosts.

That's why I prefer something like Match. You pay BUT no ELO BS to deal with. Just put in search parameters and send out messages. The downside is that reading profiles and sending messages takes more time than just swiping. I have much more success with Match and FB dating and overall hotter women writing back.
 

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Whats elo score
Basically a score that ranks your profile so its seen by more people. This is why you read on here people constantly deleting their profiles and making new ones on a regular basis. When you're new you're higher up on the deck. I believe it because whenever I delete it and make a new profile I suddenly get a bunch of people swiping on me. That better than buying tinder gold I think and being stuck on the same profile.
 

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I've had the app for about 5 years, kept same profile.

People say if you make a new profile you will get more swipes? Not sure if that's true or not, but I have noticed I'm getting way less matches from the time I first installed the app till now.

Also you gotta look your absolute best in your top picture. Experiment with angles and get a female opinion on it too. The aim is to look way hotter in your first pic than in real life.
 

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I've had the app for about 5 years, kept same profile.

People say if you make a new profile you will get more swipes? Not sure if that's true or not, but I have noticed I'm getting way less matches from the time I first installed the app till now.

Also you gotta look your absolute best in your top picture. Experiment with angles and get a female opinion on it too. The aim is to look way hotter in your first pic than in real life.
probably true. I think it's dumb paying for Tinder gold and end up stuck with it because you can't delete the account and get a refund. I will cancel it before it expires and just keep deleting and making free accounts. When the matches go down delete and make new again.
 
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