"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Action date suggestions?

Knight of Roses

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Been on a few drinking dates with this plate. I want to switch it up and do an action date. I'd like to keep it cheap. Most of the venues I looked at such as bowling and topgolf all amount to pricing close to $100 for the evening.

Any other cheap suggestions y'all may have?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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R.U.G.

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Oral sex contest? The one who cvms first buys dinner?

In all seriousness, do rock climbing, mini-golf, bowling, etc. Use groupon and living social for deals and specials. yelp too.
 

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Most of the venues I looked at such as bowling and topgolf all amount to pricing close to $100 for the evening.
$100 bucks for bowling? Exactly how many games do you play when you go?

I took a chick out today to bowling,played 3 games each......25 bucks total...including 1 shoe rental (I have my own shoes).
 

Mazer

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My action dates are sex.

Here is a list,
Mini golf
Beach
Broadway play or show
Comedy club
Museum
Wine Tasting
Festivals
Rock Climbing (personally not a fan)
Cheap boat ride/cruise around the city
Amusement park (if she is into it)

These all turn into action dates when youre sexual and applying kino.
 

skinnyguy

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Comedy club for sure

The best date of my life was at Universal studios but it was $100 per head. Maybe try a cooking class or teach her how to play tennis
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lizardking82

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Paintball
Bowling
Horse riding
Mountain climbing
 

BeExcellent

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Hiking
Beach (bonus = her in a swimsuit)
Cycling
Escape Room
Batting cages or driving range (if she's a sporty chick)
Boating/waterskiing if you have access to a boat
Trivia night
Karaoke
Picnic
Canoe outing
 

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Road trip

I like to drive to places with a view. This would also work with someone else along for the ride. A road with lots of curves should make things exciting.
 
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