"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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foxhound87

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Hey lads,

Just wondering if anyone here is a professional actor, and if so how do you start?? Do you have to move to LA or can it be done in other places around North America, I'm possibly thinking about Toronto. I did 5 years of drama through high school and was excellent at it, right now I'm an Australian living in Canada on a work visa. Is there plenty of work avaliable around the place or not? (I can hide the Aussie accent if neccessary)

Thanks.. any replies appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ken785

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so you did 5 years of drama in high school. but high school is only 4 years? *chuckles :p
 

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I graduated from New York Film Academy in Manhattan 6 years ago. I've worked with Strasberg trained actors from the Actors Studio.

What exactly are you wanting to accomplish in acting?
 

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Yes, I'm a professional actor. I've done a lot of backgound work and I got a small role as "Dante" in "Baby Mama" coming out 2008. Here's some of the stuff i've done work for:

Liberty Kid
My Super Ex-Girlfriend
MTV VMA Commercial
VH1 Celeb Fit Club 4 Promo
etc....

DO NOT MOVE TO LA!!!!!!!!!! LA is for when you have money and you're known already. It will be extremely hard for a new name to make it in LA. I live in NY and I've been acting for 3 years now.

To get started, try to get training from a good acting instructor. I'm working on no training, but things will move along faster if you have it. Get a good headshot and make a resume. Start buying Backstage newspaper, they have casting calls in there. There are also sites where you can get casting calls. If you fit the description for anything, submit yourself. Try to get a manager and/or an agent. They will help you get work and IMPORTANT: THEY DON'T GET PAID UNTIL YOU GET PAID! IF THE CHARGE YOU FOR ANYTHING THEY ARE NOT LEGIT!

If you need any other info let me know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Right now I'm just see what options are out there, I'd be more interested in tv, commercials etc rather than theatre. I might snoop around a bit more and see what I can find, thanks for the tips. Btw I did do 5 years of high school, years 8 through to 12 that's what we consider high school in Australia.
 

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foxhound87 said:
Right now I'm just see what options are out there, I'd be more interested in tv, commercials etc rather than theatre. I might snoop around a bit more and see what I can find, thanks for the tips. Btw I did do 5 years of high school, years 8 through to 12 that's what we consider high school in Australia.
That is what i'm doing.. I've done background work for commercials and film, and the small role I got is a film being done by Universal Pictures. Whatever training you have, make sure you put it on your resume and put the name of the teacher that taught you.
 

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i love acting...but im deadly afriad to follow my passion. i want to major in Theatre in college so bad but i dont want to starve!!....I need something reliable to fall back on...how do you survive as an aspiring actor??
 

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Ken785 said:
i love acting...but im deadly afriad to follow my passion. i want to major in Theatre in college so bad but i dont want to starve!!....I need something reliable to fall back on...how do you survive as an aspiring actor??
i still live with my mom so food and everything's no problem. I'm only 20 though so yea. lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what area do you live in? how do you manage to get acting work like that if not in la or ny?
 

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I have a friend that I just graduated with who traveled to Atlanta a lot to shoot commercials and audition. She landed a n extra role in a movie. I think her head got to big though and she decided she was established enough to go out to LA now.
 

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Ken785 said:
what area do you live in? how do you manage to get acting work like that if not in la or ny?
They do have occasional castng calls in other random areas, it really depends on what the film, commercial, etc... is about and what kind of scenery they want in it. You just gotta check for casting calls in your location. But NY and LA are the 2 main places. I live in NY.

I'm going to be moving to florida, so i'm expecting a big decrease in work down there, if any. But once I get a good job down there, I won't hesitate to fly to NY for an audition on a big film.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Toronto's a pretty good place to get started in the acting world from what I hear. Sort of the L.A. of Canada.
Yea, Ontario, Canada is a good place aswell.
 
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