Act busy or wear her down?

[Trump]

A lot of the advice on this site is about acting busy so you are not one of her orbiters. But if you are acting busy how is she even going to care?

Is she going to care about the guy who is busy to make money to get her stuff she can get herself, or is she going to care about the guy who is authentic and spends time to ask her how her day was?

Doesn’t mean be beta or a pushover. But it’s an assumption by acting busy and not calling and having a life she will fall in love with you. As long as you protect yourself, and aren’t fabulous looking that girls fall in your lap, I think you can get more results by showing you care than putting on a show that you are super busy.

 

[Glassguy]

They key is to state your intentions with a woman and go from there. She either has interest and makes it easy to go out with her or she doesnt and you move on.

Too many dudes not going for the kill, over thinking what the woman says or how she acts. Orbiting comes from either getting strung along because you arent going for the kill (asking for the date or asking to hang out) or asking and getting rejected but still putting time and attention into the woman that rejected you.

If she rejected you, she honestly doesnt care if you are busy or not. There is no interest and she doesnt think about you at all and you shouldnt care either.

 

[lizardking82]

People here and anywhere in the world should stop faking stuff. Go get busy for real. Doesn't matter if you're fishing the whole week, women tend to like busy guys.

Acting will get you up to a certain point and then she will find out. I just don't understand how some men are so desperate for a piece of ass they would go out of their way to act busy. Go act in a movie or sth, maybe earn some money LOL