"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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killbill

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Next time you go to the store or wherever act like your the king. act as if your president, act as if you have a 9 inch ****. Do this and you wont fear anyone or any hottie. Just act like that. This will boost confidence and everyhing. hope you listen. remember practice this and you will fell awesome.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, so you want me to act like Bush, put a fake smile on my face and make people hate me in general?

:D :cheer:
 

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Basically, what my man (no homo) here is trying to communicate is this:

When you walk into the store, remember you have a pair of balls and ACT LIKE IT e.g. don't be a punk and be sure of yourself.

If a KING or a MAN THAT WAS SURE OF HIMSELF saw a pretty girl, he'd walk up to her and KNOW that she's just plain stupid if she don't wanna get with him. After all, what women DOESN'T want to be a Queen??

At the end of the day, the King knows that the girls who may have rejected him could never be queen, and in comparison are peasents.

Who's really losing here??? Thank you
 

tryin 2 play

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Boiler Room. This is where the "act as if" quote comes from. Watch that movie, those guys embody the whole act as if attitude
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by killbill
Next time you go to the store or wherever act like your the king. act as if your president, act as if you have a 9 inch ****. Do this and you wont fear anyone or any hottie. Just act like that. This will boost confidence and everyhing. hope you listen. remember practice this and you will fell awesome.
True. But does this put numbers in your phone? No. You can think that you're the emperor of of North America, but this will get you nothing because it doesn't invoke action.

A more valuable thing to concentrate on is action. It doesn't matter how good you think you are in your head, you have to approach and initiate conversations.
 

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Originally posted by killbill
Next time you go to the store or wherever act like your the king. act as if your president, act as if you have a 9 inch ****. Do this and you wont fear anyone or any hottie. Just act like that. This will boost confidence and everyhing. hope you listen. remember practice this and you will fell awesome.
Watch a little too much boiler room?

Great movie by the way, everybody here should watch it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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