"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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killbill

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Next time you go to the store or wherever act like your the king. act as if your president, act as if you have a 9 inch ****. Do this and you wont fear anyone or any hottie. Just act like that. This will boost confidence and everyhing. hope you listen. remember practice this and you will fell awesome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sux2bu

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Okay, so you want me to act like Bush, put a fake smile on my face and make people hate me in general?

:D :cheer:
 

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Basically, what my man (no homo) here is trying to communicate is this:

When you walk into the store, remember you have a pair of balls and ACT LIKE IT e.g. don't be a punk and be sure of yourself.

If a KING or a MAN THAT WAS SURE OF HIMSELF saw a pretty girl, he'd walk up to her and KNOW that she's just plain stupid if she don't wanna get with him. After all, what women DOESN'T want to be a Queen??

At the end of the day, the King knows that the girls who may have rejected him could never be queen, and in comparison are peasents.

Who's really losing here??? Thank you
 

tryin 2 play

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Boiler Room. This is where the "act as if" quote comes from. Watch that movie, those guys embody the whole act as if attitude
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by killbill
Next time you go to the store or wherever act like your the king. act as if your president, act as if you have a 9 inch ****. Do this and you wont fear anyone or any hottie. Just act like that. This will boost confidence and everyhing. hope you listen. remember practice this and you will fell awesome.
True. But does this put numbers in your phone? No. You can think that you're the emperor of of North America, but this will get you nothing because it doesn't invoke action.

A more valuable thing to concentrate on is action. It doesn't matter how good you think you are in your head, you have to approach and initiate conversations.
 

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Originally posted by killbill
Next time you go to the store or wherever act like your the king. act as if your president, act as if you have a 9 inch ****. Do this and you wont fear anyone or any hottie. Just act like that. This will boost confidence and everyhing. hope you listen. remember practice this and you will fell awesome.
Watch a little too much boiler room?

Great movie by the way, everybody here should watch it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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