"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pecoso

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Hey, bg first...

I know this girl. Looks pretty good. I've known her about a year or so. We've talked sometimes. We're sorta between "acquainted" and "friends". So...

How do I go about trying to get her? Am I already too late?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Morphiex

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well u gotta tell something more about the situasion... has she been giving u any signs lately ever macked out with her stuff like that... cant just say i have a friend can i get her and expect resonses....
 

Morphiex

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or you could just read the shezzlers the code of life thread to understand....
 
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