"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pecoso

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Hey, bg first...

I know this girl. Looks pretty good. I've known her about a year or so. We've talked sometimes. We're sorta between "acquainted" and "friends". So...

How do I go about trying to get her? Am I already too late?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Morphiex

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well u gotta tell something more about the situasion... has she been giving u any signs lately ever macked out with her stuff like that... cant just say i have a friend can i get her and expect resonses....
 

Morphiex

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or you could just read the shezzlers the code of life thread to understand....
 
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