"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Acne Scars...

sano

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I have a very simple question...

How do you get ride of or reduce the appearance of Acne scars?

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What type of scars? Red marks or "icepick" scars?
 

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Whew, we are in the same boat then...So far, using a loofah sponge in the shower before I was has been helping a lot, along with using Sea Breeze. Someone else mentioned using lemon juice on your face once...
 

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Try getting Proactiv solution, and then this stuff called "Mederna" or something similar. They have it at your local drugstore like walgreens.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Julian
Try getting Proactiv solution, and then this stuff called "Mederna" or something similar. They have it at your local drugstore like walgreens.
Very mixed reviews on Proactiv from people and Mederma hasn't worked for anyone I've talked to (whole websites worth.)
 

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The best thing for acne scars is Retin-A

its a perscription facial ointment..Ive seen this turn some scar face people into smooth baby faces over time..but its expensive ..like $125 a tube and its perscription
 

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LOL! icepick scars... I think he means stretchmarks.
 

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Retin-A works well with stretchmarks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sano, www.acne.org and use the regimen

You might find other things that work for you like the loofah works for crazykid; however, one of the biggest things that creates more acne is irritation.

Since I have made a concsious effort to not touch my face with my hands throughout the day I have noticed a drastic drop in my acne. The second most noticeable thing I did was to stop rubbing my face dry after a shower, now I just pat dry with a clean towel.
 
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