"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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acne scar?

Snap87

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hey. I was looking through some google searches for acne scars because of my face. I saw some that said a acne scar can be the last stage of acne or something like that. I saw google images and saw some pictures of people that have very little holes on their face and its red. Thats exactly what i have on my phucking face, and its pissing me off because in the mornings, my face is very clear. Then when it gets A LITTLE warm starting like at 11:00, those little holes make that part of my face turn red as an apple. I used to grow lots of pimples on my face, but i only get like 1-3 every month(not a big deal), but now its these reddist phucking spots. I dont know how long this will last, or if it permanent. and its really crazy that no one in my dad's or mom's family ever had acne, but im the only one in their generation that had acne. Just wondering if theirs anything i can do to help "heal" this scar. Surgery or laser treatment is the last thing on my mind.

THANKS!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shiftkey

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You're only 16, acne is normal at your age. Wait a few years and it will probably heal itself.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Doesn't sound like acne. Just sounds like your face gets really red and your pores are visible. Acne scars show up all the time, believe me. Usually slight discoloration where you used to have a pimple if it was a smaller one, and sometimes, for those deeper zits, you get raised scars, as if you burnt yourself. The colors fade, but the bumps need to be fixed by a dermatologist.
 

penkitten

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dont pop or mess with pimples. they go away sooner if you leave them alone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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