"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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acne scar?

Snap87

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hey. I was looking through some google searches for acne scars because of my face. I saw some that said a acne scar can be the last stage of acne or something like that. I saw google images and saw some pictures of people that have very little holes on their face and its red. Thats exactly what i have on my phucking face, and its pissing me off because in the mornings, my face is very clear. Then when it gets A LITTLE warm starting like at 11:00, those little holes make that part of my face turn red as an apple. I used to grow lots of pimples on my face, but i only get like 1-3 every month(not a big deal), but now its these reddist phucking spots. I dont know how long this will last, or if it permanent. and its really crazy that no one in my dad's or mom's family ever had acne, but im the only one in their generation that had acne. Just wondering if theirs anything i can do to help "heal" this scar. Surgery or laser treatment is the last thing on my mind.

THANKS!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shiftkey

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You're only 16, acne is normal at your age. Wait a few years and it will probably heal itself.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Doesn't sound like acne. Just sounds like your face gets really red and your pores are visible. Acne scars show up all the time, believe me. Usually slight discoloration where you used to have a pimple if it was a smaller one, and sometimes, for those deeper zits, you get raised scars, as if you burnt yourself. The colors fade, but the bumps need to be fixed by a dermatologist.
 

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dont pop or mess with pimples. they go away sooner if you leave them alone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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