"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Acne + Dry skin: Please advise

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So I have this acne - its not that bad, but could be better. I used this stuff with 5% benzoyl pheroxide (or whatever), and it didn't really help. My skin got really dry and flaky though. Had to use liberal amounts of face cream - and I mean like 200 ml a day for the 2nd day now. Its crazy shyt!

So what can you advise - is the best way simply not to touch my face at all with my hands? I try not to, but I often forget, like right now... :(. Or should I talk to a doctor? Or are there any other better medical creams or whatnot?

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diablo

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Speak to your dermatologist... though biased, I'm a strong advocate of Accutane (or a generic)...
 

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Accutanes the way to go no creams no mosturizers well at least after ur done w/ it go to ur derm
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I drink a lot of water, it doesn't help ****, I'm wondering if it's just a hippy vegetarian wonder treatment.

I'm on Benzol Peroxide, but I never use it regularly which is why it probably doesn't work.

Accutane? My doctor presented that to me as an option once, but said it had a lot of side effects, like nosebleeds, dry skin, etc. Do you really want all that?

Then again... I'd rather be thin with flawless skin and get nosebleeds than not... some girls will get all emotional about it, thinking you have some brain hemmoraging condition, or that you use psychic abilities.
 

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probably the stuff u use to treat your acne overdrys the skin, if that's the case stop using it and try something else. Or you can continue using it in addition to using moisturizer after each wash as a temporary reliever for your dry skin.
 

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++THE SOLUTION+++

What soap u using?

- Use "DOVE UNSCENTED SOAP"

Its in a green/white box, pick it up at your local rite aid or sav ons.

- Use cold water instead of hot water when showering. Using hot water melts away your body's natural oil from your skin

- Always lotiong on dry areas of body

- Make sure you don't sweat a lot.

- Eat lots of protein, take multivitamins, drink lots of water.

PROBLEM SOLVED

I got this problem down to a science
 
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