"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Acne and The Solution

ryan killa

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2003
Messages
165
Reaction score
0
Location
California
Hi:

Often, I've run across posts where people say that they have acne, tried everything, etc., or whatever.

In used to have relatively bad acne, but once I changed my diet from crap to only good food(no chocolate, whole wheat bread, whole wheat pasta, etc.) my face began to improve.

HOWEVER, the NUMBER 1 answer for me was and still is flax seeds.

One can buy them at a supermarket for pocket change, and I bascially take a tablespoon and place them in my mouth. (It takes a while to break them down)

Therefore, EAT FLAX SEEDS, such as when you are idle(on the computer or watching tv, etc.

THEY WORK!

This is my tip of the day, out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

TOR

New Member
Joined
Feb 18, 2005
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by ryan killa
Hi:

Often, I've run across posts where people say that they have acne, tried everything, etc., or whatever.

In used to have relatively bad acne, but once I changed my diet from crap to only good food(no chocolate, whole wheat bread, whole wheat pasta, etc.) my face began to improve.

HOWEVER, the NUMBER 1 answer for me was and still is flax seeds.

One can buy them at a supermarket for pocket change, and I bascially take a tablespoon and place them in my mouth. (It takes a while to break them down)

Therefore, EAT FLAX SEEDS, such as when you are idle(on the computer or watching tv, etc.

THEY WORK!

This is my tip of the day, out.
And why does this work?
 

ryan killa

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2003
Messages
165
Reaction score
0
Location
California
Vitamin E, mainly, plus Omega 3s.

I believe they are the most abundant source of Omega 3 on the planet.
 

tyciol

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2005
Messages
136
Reaction score
0
Age
40
What about my lovely tuna?

Also, I heard the stomach has trouble breaking down the raw seeds and that it's not able to fully absorb the omega 3, so why not the oil?
 

ryan killa

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2003
Messages
165
Reaction score
0
Location
California
Tuna has very little fat, equating to very little Omega 3. Make that VERY little. Just make sure to break down the seeds very well, or use a blender.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Brad324

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
82
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Surrey BC
if you want Omega 3, just buy some capsules and take the stuff directly.

I take 4 omega 3-6-9 capsules per day and they seem to help alot (they also help with confidence by slightly boosting seratonin levels)

But the main thing that helped my acne was going to a tanning salon. I know everyone seems to say that tanning DOESN'T help acne, it just makes your pimples less noticeable because your skin tone is closer, but that's just not the case for me. I just went to a tanning salon yesterday with a few zits on my forehead, and they're all starting to disappear. My skin feels more soft with that natural oily texture, and not dry at all. I don't know why it is that people claim tanning doesn't help... maybe it helps for some people and not for others?
 

S0LID

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2004
Messages
944
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Roaccutane :D
 

InsidiousNstinct

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2003
Messages
763
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Somewhere between the cities of Lost and Found
How about not eating fatty foods with grease(pizza, hamburger, french fries, exc)...and other things that cause acne to flair up.....

Everyone wants an easy way or a short way out....


Workin for me....
 

Double

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2004
Messages
1,212
Reaction score
1
flax seeds and tanning do help to an extent but roaccutane is the big killer. my advice: do it all:D
 

tyciol

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2005
Messages
136
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Insidious: what makes you think greasy foods cause acne?

As for tanning... it causes wrinkles man, it's good in youth, bad for later. I prefer to be as pale as possible... which is tough with my inflamed skin and tendency to walk outside in the sun...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top