"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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frivolousz21

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1. every women is a HOR!

no they arent...2 things. 1. a HOR is a *****..if u get used by a HOR..then its ur bad for not seeking out the truth before you get attached. 2. just because ur a pyssy and cant be a man..doesnt mean ur women is a *****...its ur deal if u cant keep her content with ur ****.

2. marriages are a waste because everyone gets divored!

we arent everyone..we are supposed to be DJ;s take that however u interpet it. If you cant see that ur women isnt really in love with you..then too fycking bad..stop coming here with ur negative bullshyt. maybe if u werent an idiot you would be able to tell the diff between a women in love with u..or a women just a long for the ride. open ur eyes.

3. i have to be a jerk..or ill be F-ed over.

no you have to be MAN...a gentleman to be precise..this bullshyt on here that says you cant show her ur feelings is garbage! there is a huge diff between showing and expressing how u feel about her as a MAN..than there is as a pyssy.....

4. stop giving advice when you have no life expierence.

I have had sex with 25 women..dating atleast 40 to 50 ...and have been physical with over 100. I KNOW WHAT IM DOING..I come here to get some advice from some expierenced DJ's in LTR;s and i have a bunch of AFC's who sit on here wishing they would just muster the courage to say HI to a women telling me how it is!

please STFU!


wow I feel as frustrated as PRL

atleast I still have Supergigalodj!


peace
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree on the whole "blind leading the blind" thing. I mean, I've seen some pics of guys on here, who, no offence, look like complete losers who probably couldn't land a girl if their life depended on it. Just general ugliness/loserness lol. But THEN, I see the same guys posting all of these "theories" and telling other guys how to run game.

I sit there and I think "wait a minute, isn't that the same guy that was in the pic...omg lol".

It sucks, but that's how the internet works.
 

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Be your own man and do what works for you.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
I agree on the whole "blind leading the blind" thing. I mean, I've seen some pics of guys on here, who, no offence, look like complete losers who probably couldn't land a girl if their life depended on it. Just general ugliness/loserness lol. But THEN, I see the same guys posting all of these "theories" and telling other guys how to run game.

I sit there and I think "wait a minute, isn't that the same guy that was in the pic...omg lol".

It sucks, but that's how the internet works.
Have we ever seen a picture of you?
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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and i have a bunch of AFC's who sit on here wishing they would just muster the courage to say HI to a women telling me how it is!
LOL..... I love that line. Welcome to the world of online forums.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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there is my pic!

even though I dont think u were asking me for mine :)


Ive just come to realize if I need advice on here.. I will have to look for people and PM them.

its just getting rediculous with all these ideas and theories.
 

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I'm still trying to find your point in posting this. Social proof maybe?
 

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You know what is lame.
When a guy writes in lower case letters. I really thought it was a girl when I saw it. It is a girly man instead. Same difference.
 
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