"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frivolousz21

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1. every women is a HOR!

no they arent...2 things. 1. a HOR is a *****..if u get used by a HOR..then its ur bad for not seeking out the truth before you get attached. 2. just because ur a pyssy and cant be a man..doesnt mean ur women is a *****...its ur deal if u cant keep her content with ur ****.

2. marriages are a waste because everyone gets divored!

we arent everyone..we are supposed to be DJ;s take that however u interpet it. If you cant see that ur women isnt really in love with you..then too fycking bad..stop coming here with ur negative bullshyt. maybe if u werent an idiot you would be able to tell the diff between a women in love with u..or a women just a long for the ride. open ur eyes.

3. i have to be a jerk..or ill be F-ed over.

no you have to be MAN...a gentleman to be precise..this bullshyt on here that says you cant show her ur feelings is garbage! there is a huge diff between showing and expressing how u feel about her as a MAN..than there is as a pyssy.....

4. stop giving advice when you have no life expierence.

I have had sex with 25 women..dating atleast 40 to 50 ...and have been physical with over 100. I KNOW WHAT IM DOING..I come here to get some advice from some expierenced DJ's in LTR;s and i have a bunch of AFC's who sit on here wishing they would just muster the courage to say HI to a women telling me how it is!

please STFU!


wow I feel as frustrated as PRL

atleast I still have Supergigalodj!


peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree on the whole "blind leading the blind" thing. I mean, I've seen some pics of guys on here, who, no offence, look like complete losers who probably couldn't land a girl if their life depended on it. Just general ugliness/loserness lol. But THEN, I see the same guys posting all of these "theories" and telling other guys how to run game.

I sit there and I think "wait a minute, isn't that the same guy that was in the pic...omg lol".

It sucks, but that's how the internet works.
 

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Be your own man and do what works for you.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
I agree on the whole "blind leading the blind" thing. I mean, I've seen some pics of guys on here, who, no offence, look like complete losers who probably couldn't land a girl if their life depended on it. Just general ugliness/loserness lol. But THEN, I see the same guys posting all of these "theories" and telling other guys how to run game.

I sit there and I think "wait a minute, isn't that the same guy that was in the pic...omg lol".

It sucks, but that's how the internet works.
Have we ever seen a picture of you?
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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and i have a bunch of AFC's who sit on here wishing they would just muster the courage to say HI to a women telling me how it is!
LOL..... I love that line. Welcome to the world of online forums.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there is my pic!

even though I dont think u were asking me for mine :)


Ive just come to realize if I need advice on here.. I will have to look for people and PM them.

its just getting rediculous with all these ideas and theories.
 

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I'm still trying to find your point in posting this. Social proof maybe?
 

Ricky

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You know what is lame.
When a guy writes in lower case letters. I really thought it was a girl when I saw it. It is a girly man instead. Same difference.
 
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