"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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According to Gambler a PUA Should Drink a Glass of Water Rather than an Alcoholic Bev

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Because men need to learn how to be confident without being under the influence. You can't stay drunk your whole life, 24/7. If you don't face your fears of approaching women (without alcohol) you will NEVER get over them and will not improve. Also, it sets you apart from all the other men.
 

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I would agree - Certainly from the gambling point of view. I don't play the tables that often but I do find I do a lot worse when I'm playing drunk or tired.

Which of course is quite probably why the casinos here all have late bars and later opening hours than any club. ;)

And there may be another advantage in that it makes the night much cheaper, so you can get out more?

I have to watch what I drink for medical reasons (can drink but not regularly), so I've never had a problem going out and staying sober.
 
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