"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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According to Gambler a PUA Should Drink a Glass of Water Rather than an Alcoholic Bev

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Because men need to learn how to be confident without being under the influence. You can't stay drunk your whole life, 24/7. If you don't face your fears of approaching women (without alcohol) you will NEVER get over them and will not improve. Also, it sets you apart from all the other men.
 

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I would agree - Certainly from the gambling point of view. I don't play the tables that often but I do find I do a lot worse when I'm playing drunk or tired.

Which of course is quite probably why the casinos here all have late bars and later opening hours than any club. ;)

And there may be another advantage in that it makes the night much cheaper, so you can get out more?

I have to watch what I drink for medical reasons (can drink but not regularly), so I've never had a problem going out and staying sober.
 
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