"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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According to Gambler a PUA Should Drink a Glass of Water Rather than an Alcoholic Bev

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Because men need to learn how to be confident without being under the influence. You can't stay drunk your whole life, 24/7. If you don't face your fears of approaching women (without alcohol) you will NEVER get over them and will not improve. Also, it sets you apart from all the other men.
 

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I would agree - Certainly from the gambling point of view. I don't play the tables that often but I do find I do a lot worse when I'm playing drunk or tired.

Which of course is quite probably why the casinos here all have late bars and later opening hours than any club. ;)

And there may be another advantage in that it makes the night much cheaper, so you can get out more?

I have to watch what I drink for medical reasons (can drink but not regularly), so I've never had a problem going out and staying sober.
 
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