"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Accomplish something new. That's it.

Create Reality

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That's all there is to it. And it will take you by surprise how good you feel after it. Learn something new. Been putting off that hobby you want to get started, out of sheer apathy and lack of will? NO! Get started! Listen, and really listen, to a new genre of music. Catch a groove you rarely do. DO IT! Escape the comfort zone, the everyday routine. Too busy? Make time. Too lazy? Tooo bad. Accomplish something and it will really put things in perspective. You might even want to go huntin' ;) .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ironager

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It's true. Accomplishing your goals, no matter how small they are, gives you confidence to take on bigger goals which in turn will give you even more confidence. It's an upward cycle that can only be broken if you set too big of a goal.

This way you can increase your confidence step by step by each day undertaking a slightly bigger goal then you accomplished the day before...
 

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Yep...It's all got to do with satisfaction :D
 
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