"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I noticed this with just about every salesgirl, retail girl, grocery store girl I encounter who is in her twenties. Every time I ask a question, or ask for help, there is always some prolonged touching with our hands. Or, I can't seem to end the interaction when it should.

For example, I was at a store a while back (think I wrote up a FR about this), and the girl gives me change and stares and smiles and holds my hand as she hands back the change. The touch was "electric." It actually felt like a jolt of electricity went through my body. I don't consider myself desperate, as I date reasonably often (say once a week or so) but there was a real electricity in her touch.

I encountered another girl who did something similar today. I asked for some help picking oranges. The girl comes over and holds the orange with me and caresses the palm of my hand at the same time. She felt completely comfortable and natural about it it seemed, so I went along with it.

Then in the checkout line, I chatted up the checkout girl. I've seen her before and I know she likes me. I extend my card to pay after a brief chat, but she ignores it. We keep talking, I look at her and my card, do this over and over again and she finally takes the card.

Would you guys consider such "accidental" prolonged touching IOI's?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Id say so.

I'm really getting into these vague, three word, master DJ responses.:yes:
 
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The electricity was all on your end. She reached for the hand sanitizer afterwards.
 
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More than IOI's, more like FMI's..


I noticed that too. They just see a great guy from a mile and flock to investigate.


I had something very similar with a hottie at post office. I came there on my bike, sweaty, and breathing really deep to recuperate. I'd say I smelled too. This HB8 comes behind me in the line, and then inches closer and closer. As I was ignoring her, she got even closer. Her tittie was inches from my arms and I could feel her breath. It was a cry for talk to me please. And I haven't made eye contact with her, nor acknowledged her presence, nor said anything to her nor anyone else. Just by my looks and body language she decided she had to get my attention.

If she could drop her letter and bend over to pick it up right in front of me, she'd do it.

No touching there. But touching at grocery stores, like you described, happens a lot.
 
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She's practicing kino. They read stuff like this too.

It's probably meant as a compliment. I'd take it as such.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is FMI?

Stuntmann said:
More than IOI's, more like FMI's..


I noticed that too. They just see a great guy from a mile and flock to investigate.


I had something very similar with a hottie at post office. I came there on my bike, sweaty, and breathing really deep to recuperate. I'd say I smelled too. This HB8 comes behind me in the line, and then inches closer and closer. As I was ignoring her, she got even closer. Her tittie was inches from my arms and I could feel her breath. It was a cry for talk to me please. And I haven't made eye contact with her, nor acknowledged her presence, nor said anything to her nor anyone else. Just by my looks and body language she decided she had to get my attention.

If she could drop her letter and bend over to pick it up right in front of me, she'd do it.

No touching there. But touching at grocery stores, like you described, happens a lot.
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To paraphrase the Indian guy from 40 Year Old Virgin: "I better get on that, man!"
 
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