"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Maverick001
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"You know what? You have very good taste!"
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Giovanni Casanova
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Whenever someone gives me a really sincere compliment, my usual answer is as follows:
HER: Wow, you're attractive, smart AND funny!
ME: That's what I keep trying to tell everybody.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kaine
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Her: " you are really nice looking"
Looking in her eyes with a sly grin:
1. Are you hitting on me?
2. Why don't you just ask me for my number
3. Hey I'm not thaaaat easy
4. Is that your way of asking me out?
5. Is that the best pickup line you have?
6. Hey, glad we have something in common
7. What? Even without the makeup?
8. Finally a women who speaks her mind!
9.
*badly acting it's hard to hear*
Sorry what was that you said?...
What?....
Didn't quite get you?...
Say that again?...
What???
Oh... I just like the sound of voice when you say it.
*apply Kino here*
Hehehe otherwise
Just say.... "Thanks" and move on to something else like it was nothing.
This forces her to assume that you get that a lot and it doesn't really mean that much to you. She might even call you on it. I love this. Good default reaction for those still on their training wheels.
haha that would count as a compliment towards a fat ugly girl.Originally posted by Kaine
hahaha love it, thats too much ammo for a smooth criminal
Her: " you are really nice looking"
Looking in her eyes with a sly grin:
6. Hey, glad we have something in common
her: "you are really nice looking."
Me: you want me dont you? (with a grin and my hand on my chin with the look that im thinking of something naughty)
Me: and?
me: finally! someone that doesnt look at my inner beauty!
me: Exactly!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
HB: "Hey, your really hot btw"
ME: "So thats why all the girls look at me?"
MindOverMatter
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Haha, I've been using that line for ages too. A$$holes think alike
thefonz
Master Don Juan
thats good
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
However, when it's a stranger or someone I barely know who compliments me, I just say "thanks". I noticed that this is how most confident HBs take compliments and it indicates that receiving them is no big deal.
squirrels
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"Thank you" is normal.
If you want to be ****ier, say something like "I know." and give her a big grin.
Or just don't say sh!t. It drives 'em nuts when they throw you compliments and you don't react. I guess they think "He must get that ALL the time if he takes it so nonchalantly". Or something, fvck'f I know.
hehe, I like that one. Delivered with a dead serious face saying "it really means a lot to me to have somebody not just look at my inner beauty" I can see that one being the dog's b*llocks. ,)
I usually say something like "well, it's hard not to."