Acceptable to ask a girl with a bf to hand out?

[CarpeDiem]

Acceptable to ask a girl with a bf to hang out?

She's now my ex. Her boyfriend is basically my best friend. Is it ok to ask her to hang out?

Edit: Crap, just saw the typo in the title. Should say hang instead of hand.

*Note by TheVirtualMind* Got ya covered.

 

[john paul]

whats the situations here?
She break up with you, you break up with her?
Was that "lets still be friends" stuff said?
Are you trying to gain her back?

We need to know more details to make an intelligant answer

 

[CarpeDiem]

Alright, just to let you know though, it was about a year and a half ago we broke up.

She broke up with me, but we hang out once about a week later and she couldn't stop crying. Just recently she admitted to me it was because she kinda hoped I would say something to try and keep her >.>

I basically just cut off all contact with her after it happened. We just started talking about about a month and a half ago.

I have to admit, I do still like her, but am I trying to get her back? If she fell in my lap I'm sure i'd take her, but I couldn't try and steal her from my friend so take that however you want.

 

[john paul]

Well i would put it this way.

If shes worth the friendship you have with the guy then go for her.

but if your not 100 percent sure you want her back then dont hang out with her.



And since you said you dont want to steal her from your friend then i would say dont hang out with her. Nothing good would come from it

 

[CarpeDiem]

Anyone else?

 

[amoka]

What does your friend thinks about this? Are you trying to secretly go out with her so she can take you back? Will you be in a good term with you friend if he finds out you went out with her without his knowledge? Also, is she worth being with than your friend. These are the questions you ask yourself when doing something like this? If your friend is more worthy than she is then don't. If you want to discretely hang out with her, be prepare to loose a friend should he find out.
-amoka

 

[OldSP]

If you ask me, here is my honest opinion.
If you close with you mate, tell him that you are not going to try anything on her so no need to worry and then just treat her like your friend, because its no use losing two friends for sex. So just chill get close and remain in contact, maybe try and hang out in a group and get her to bring some friends you may be interested in, this pleases everyone!

 

[Bling]

No. No. and well.... NO!

You're going to do it anyway, but don't say we didn't warn you.